Hi people! I am a female who has only had sex once! A few years ago actually!lol I have a bf I am very in love with and I am too tight and he is very endowed! Does anyone know how I can make him fit, and me stretch without severe pain!? My bf has never been with a female with a sad sexual history and doesn't know what to do. Please help! ask and I will give you my e-mail addy if you would like to send me a msg, confidentially!
2007-06-13 14:10:02 · 18 answers · asked by Z1981 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lubrication , masterbation with good toys ranging in sizes like start of with a soft or life like small then a medium then a large and so on and also try using fingers to like gradualy put one then two and so on.relaxing and being comfortable fantizise so you can get really stimulated and well you will feel some pain - im not a virgin and i had sex a year ago and dont penatrate to begin with that often but recently ive been seeing a --big---guy and it hurt a bit but now im okay i got used to it. if you anticipate pain you will clench up and well feel pain also tell him to go slow do lots of oral and take time. dont thrust just penetrate wait a min then do really soft pumps.
2007-06-21 08:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know it seems tough right now but people here are giving you some good advice. Silicone based lube and a lot of foreplay to get you good and ready. Soon you will be extremely happy with his endowment.
2007-06-21 03:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by Lil ole me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, why don't you wait until you get married and then you can "make love" which is much better than casual sex. You sound way too young to be having sex. Tsk, tsk. why should your boyfriend buy the cow when he can get the milk free. You're abusing your body little girl. Save yourself for your husband, he'll appreciate you more if you wait. Instead you wanna use and abuse your precious body. What a shame.
2007-06-21 11:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you make sure you have lots of lubrication to start. If you are not lubed enough, it will be painful. If you are not lubed naturally, then use KY or something like it. He also needs to take it very slowly until you can get it going together.
I wish you the best of luck and with time, you will be able to handle the size of his penis.
2007-06-13 14:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Linda L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i could wait till you're a sprint farther alongside in existence and in age. that's no longer a fulfillment against you, yet take exhilaration in the greater youthful years and you may take a greater intense turn later. have confidence me maximum men get greater effective with age so which you would be in a solid place in case you wait some years.
2016-10-07 11:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by schiraldi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. Go to your nearest.. Walmart- Walgreens, CVS.. .Or where ever and pick you up some. KY-JELLY.. and if that doesn't lube you up.. Contact me privately and I will send you some stuff that will feel like silk... And you will be in hog heaven...
He needs to give you a break and work with you....
2007-06-21 09:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by jenjen2_46514 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the foreplay, dahling! Its either he's too quick in uh...doing it or he's too eager. In love making, its a two way road. Both must stimulate the other.
2007-06-21 06:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Licia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to wallmart get some lube, also go slow. till it is comfortable for you. oh and find a silicone based lube, lasts longer and feels better, for the guy
2007-06-20 19:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go slow start out kissing and just touching each other that will help you get really wet. Then have him use his fingers to just massage your vagina for a few minutes then have him slowly insert a finger till it is comfortable for you. Have him add fingers as you become comfortable with them.
2007-06-13 15:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by Brandon B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
think about it no matter how well endowed he is --- he is no where near the size of a baby --- so take your time a lot of stimulation and it becomes very easy --- enjoy
2007-06-13 14:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋