Ok so I was all excited, until it got home. Its about 3 months old and it wont stop running around doing stuff and messing with things. I mean its ok but its been doing it constantly. It wont come to us when we call it and if we try to even touch it it runs off and does crazy stuff. It's kinda getting annoying, I wanted a cat because they show affection and rub against you and stuff, but this one wont. Do you guys think I should wait a couple of days or return it?
Are kittens supposed to be like this? We cant get it to stay still.
2007-06-13 14:01:42 · 22 answers · asked by chumptheory 2 in Pets ➔ Cats
Ooooh yes, that is very normal for kittens to do.
In fact, if a kitten didn't do this, that would be odd.
Don't worry, it'll get used to everything soon, and you'll have your affectionate little kitty.
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2007-06-13 14:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The kitten will settle down within a few months. But decide if you can live with it until then. If you don't feel like the kitten is a good match for you then you should return it and give it a chance to go to a home where it will be loved. There is nothing wrong with that. Some people just aren't into cats enough to have one in their home. And if you've never had a kitten, then how would you know unless you tried it. Think about it and if you really feel like you can commit to taking good care of this kitten for the rest of it's life then keep it. If not then return it. It's a lot more responsible than what some people would do - abuse the kitten or dump it somewhere.
2007-06-13 15:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by abbasgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh another one that didn't bother to do their homework.
What do you mean it "won't come to you when it's called?" You didn't get a DOG! Are you that oblivious to the difference between the two species?!
What's the matter? Isn't your new toy 'cute' anymore? Is it becoming a nuisance? Kind of like a baby? Is it turning into a real living being, with demands and needs and wants instead of just sitting there awaiting your pleasure? Well my goodness. And to think you'll actually have to exert effort in dealing with unruly behavior - oh my gosh! That sounds just like human toddlers who get into everything and their mothers have to follow them around and pick up after them! They're just babies too, aren't they? Perhaps their mothers had better send them back because they're too much bother.
You yank a baby, a kitten, away from everything he knows and away from his mother and wonder why you don't have instant affection and a cat to lean up against you. How OLD are you anyway? Your maturity level isn't very high. What in the he-- did you think would happen? Didn't you know that kittens climb drapes, and claw furniture, and pee all over until housebroken, and have accidents and want to play at 2 a.m.? Didn't it occur to you that because they ARE babies, they have a short attention span? Did you want something 'ready-made?' If so, you should have adopted an older cat; one who has already gone through all those phases and would appreciate a loving home. An older cat would have the patience for you unthinking people who are too lazy to do your homework. A kitten is like a child and requires care. Remember, loyalty works both ways. If you truly 'loved' the kitten, you would do what is right for him/her, and you would make the time and effort for him/her. I also notice that you keep calling the kitten "it" over and over, as if it were an inanimate object and you are disassociating yourself from it. "It" is not an object, but either a "he" or a "she." "It" is a living being!
I've got a further shock for you: You would actually have to provide medical care AND PAY FOR IT if needed. Gasp! Imagine having to take responsibility and get the kitten to a vet when needed and pay good money. You would think it was the kitten's RIGHT BY LAW or something. Well it is!
You don't even let the ittle thing get accustomed to a strange, new place. You'd better take the poor little soul back where you got him/her. And do NOT dump the kitten somewhere else! Get him back to his home. You people have no concept of what is needed to love and care for a pet. You obviously haven't read even the most basic of pet books, which all list the necessity of letting the animal get accustomed to its new surroundings the first week or so.
Go out and buy a new cell phone if you need a toy or something to get excited about and show your friends. Don't do that to an animal. They need and deserve much more.
2007-06-13 14:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by D 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, give it time! It's just a baby in a new home, and new people, and new everything!
Maybe you should have adopted an older cat for the lazy affection you want. But even an older cat would need a period of adjustment.
Let the kitten get comfortable, and get to know you. It WILL take some time. Maybe 3 weeks or so. You can't force these things. The poor thing is confused right now and doesn't know that that is his home now.
Patience and love! You'll get there. But a cat is a lot more more than just affection and rubbing against you. It is like having a child. They take alot of care, love, attention, vet bills, etc. If you want to return it already, maybe you just aren't ready for a cat yet. They don't come ready made for instant affection.
2007-06-13 14:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mama_Kat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will need to be able to be a friend to your kitten and be very patient. A kitten is not a grown cat, it will play and keep you up and have tons of energy. All kitten that are healthy are that way, like all baby animals.
He/she will mess with everything you own, get into everything and sometimes break things. You have to "kitten-proof" your home and try not to let your frustration show. Please do not yell at it or discipline/train it in any rough way. You can get an idea across with gentle repetition (like removing her from the table when you eat, putting her on the floor and saying no softly but firmly, every time he/she jumps up). You will come to understand her if you are willing to try. Remember, she's lonely and in a new place. Be glad she;s not just hiding under the bed. And if you treat her right, in a year or two you'll have a grown cat just like you envision.
But he or she is a friend, not an object or a home decoration. It takes dedication and love. And it's not cheap. You'll need to take your kitty to the vet for shots, check-ups, spay/neuter, emergency visits. etc.
The great news is that it's all worth it - a kitten is a wonderful, fun, silly pet that will grow into a beautiful cat. But if you aren't ready for all of the above and more, maybe you should try to find a home for the kitten.
2007-06-13 15:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by pookabun1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
VERY normal for kittens to be like this, they have loads of energy and are constantly on the go. My boyfriend and I just got two from the same litter and all they do is play with each other and get into everything. They are very curious creatures. I've had single kittens before too and they are all little bundles of energy. They do grow out of it, I promise but it probably won't be as soon as you're hoping for. Don't get rid of it just because he's doing what kittens do. He will become more affectionate over time if you give him the chance. Perhaps you can get a little companion for him/her to play with? Good luck and remain patient, this overly playful period DOES pass.
2007-06-13 14:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Very Confused 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put the kitten in a small room for a couple of days. Put her food, water, and litter box and bed in there with her. It is normal for a new kitten to have separation anxiety. She has lost mom and all of her litter mates. She is in a strange place with strange people who are chasing her. She will probably have accidents also, if she has anxiety. It will take about two weeks for her to calm down, then you can start working on the lovable part. Get some good toys to play with her with. Get her some mice and maybe a shoestring that you can pull and she can chase. Once she trusts you, she will show you her love.
2007-06-13 15:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by bonnie g 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't used to cats are you? Yes, kittens are crazy. A tip, you should have gotten 2. They wear eachother out from 10 minutes to a few hours of going nuts, then get cute and cuddly.
Kittens are wild, thats just what they do. Sounds like you were expecting a dog personality. Cats dont usually come when you call them. They picture you as their slave! You scoop their poop! If they want love, they will come to you. :) Get it lots of toys and maybe that will help.
Cats are fun and usually pretty independent. Some dont like cuddling or being touched at all.
2007-06-13 14:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for kittens to be very active. Buy some toys and play with it until it gets worn out (this could take a while). This will keep it from getting in trouble as much and allow it to get to know you better. Give the kitten a little time and it will start being affectionate.
2007-06-13 14:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by stingra385 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy toys??????/ noooo.
Make the best cheap toy a cat ever had. Take a piece of paper ,ball it up watch that kitten get excited as you crunch the paper,lol.
Throw the ball of paper an the kitten chases an plays with it. If you luck like my wife you can learn the cat to bring the ball of paper back for you to throw again.
Virago Man =aka cat lover
2007-06-13 14:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by hotvw1914cc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is acting that crazy take it back then get a young kitten and pet it and handle it alot. I've had many cats and I live with my sister so every pair of two girl siblings I have ever gotten she handeled alot. Since they got handled so much they know we wont give up so they just come to us. Maybe you could just try to do this to. Thats all the info I can give.
2007-06-13 14:10:57 · answer #11 · answered by EGO 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋