We're in our mid-20's, we've been together 9 months. he's always joked around with me, but he usually balances it by telling me nice things or saying i'm cute etc...lately though he makes fun of everything i say and do, mimicking me and copying my voice in a whiny way...he has picked out two physical imperfections and commented on them, and when i said something, he was like "oh my god, im joking with you, i can't tell you anything?" and then acted mad!
he's been pretty stressed lately, looking for a job etc and struggling for money and i've been supporting the relationship and taking him for interviews and trying VERY hard, so maybe he feels like he's not living up to me and is bringing me down for that reason? this is really depressing me and i feel sort of helpless because it's gotten so bad...i just am constantly feeling confused and down. \
and yeah, i still love him and want this to work out! i just don't know why this is going on or what I can do.
2007-06-13 13:47:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you guys are just at a point in your relationship where he's getting really comfortable with you. He knows that he can make fun of you and you will not leave him or stop loving him because you have been together for so long. I don't think he is doing it to hurt you, he's just having some fun. If it does bother you, the only way he is going to know is if you tell him. I would tell him honestly..like you did in this question.
2007-06-13 13:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so he is stressed out lately. You need to think about whether you want to be with someone who will treat you badly and make light of hurting your feelings whenever life gets him down. Not cool, in my opinion.
2007-06-13 13:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Oceanbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try talking to him. let him know what he is doing. if he doesn't stop when you tell him too, start mimicking him and putting him down all the time. and be like oh my god im just joking. and see how he likes it. nobody needs to be treated like that. it makes some people feel really stupid.
2016-05-19 21:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you two actually sat down and talked about this?
because if not you definetly need to!
i think that he might be stressed, like you said, and he might even be doing this unconciously and he probably feels bad when you bring it up.
i think that if you just sit him down and talk to him about it, it will get better.
but if he doesn't take it seriously, leave him.
it's not worth the emotional abuse!
-birdie
2007-06-13 14:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by birdie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thought is that he is trying to end the relationship. He's trying to make you mad enough to walk out on him, because he doesn't have the courage to tell you up front.
2007-06-13 13:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out, you don't like his attitude. If he does not lisen, then break up. You may not want to do that, but what if he does, and he is doing all this things to tired you out
2007-06-13 13:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps acting like an a*s*s, get rid of him. He needs to respect your feelings.
2007-06-13 13:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by DEENIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back at him....................tell him he is real "small"
2007-06-13 16:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋