It seems to me that women are only interested in loud, life of the party types who are always the center of attention.
If a guy is quiet and somewhat withdrawn, they automatically assume he has no personality. Is there no such thing as quiet confidence? Is that an oxymoron?
Why do women never want to take the time to look deeper into someone's personality? They may just be surprised.
2007-06-13 13:41:26 · 26 answers · asked by posttk421 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, seriously, the quiet guy is usually fascinating!
2007-06-13 13:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still waters run deep and empty barrels make the most noise. There is quiet confidence and that's what makes the lion the king. It does not make an oxymoron. Some women do take their time to look beyond the noise, while some others are so shallow and confused that they don't even know what they want.
2007-06-13 20:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Bantree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey... not all women likes loud guys. In most cases I like quiet guy because most of the quiet guys are nice, gentleman, and more romantic in private. Those loud guys are being show off to get more women's attention and because most of them don't have really good personality and no good manners especially in public. If you are a quiet guy just be yourself, and keep it up time will come that a decent pretty lady will have interest in you.
2007-06-13 21:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the quiet type? Oh poor guy!! jk I like the quiet type! seriously The loud life of the party guys just have all the looks and no great personality whatsoever! The quite types are usually nice and have a great personality!
2007-06-13 20:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by smartfashiondiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because many women are that way...quiet and shy...and how are they going to be able to open up or even meet someone if they can't make the first move....I am like you....I am attracted to the wild and loud women, simply for that reason...such types compliment my shyness.
2007-06-13 20:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lilke to have fun, i like a guy who can also have as much fun as me. but don't get me wrong not to the point where he is the center of attention just a guy who can dance with me, who can drink a little with me, and have a good time. because i am also a women who likes to go deep into a person mind. Quiet guys are cute because it;s usually the women who has to be the one on top of the game...so it's fun in a good way.
2007-06-13 20:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not all women are like that. i'm not. i like the shy quiet guys sometimes too. but when guys show thier loud personality then the "women" see how much fun they can have with that guy. its kinda like judging a book by its cover, if a girl doesn't see that she can have fun by the first look she doesn't want to try. but if you want to change that then just talk to her. you don't have to be loud and the center of attention but just by saying "hi" to a girl makes her think more and more about you. like "what is this guy really like?"
2007-06-13 20:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Doll Face♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really depends on the type of women as well, they say birds with the same feather flock together, so if u are quite then don´t expect a rocker chick to dig u...am not saying u´r not worthy to be check out, it´s just that it depends on the women´s preferences, some women are attracted to quite guys not because they are quite and shy but sometimes they appear to be mysterious on some sort
hey just be yourself and don´t try to hard to impress the girls, believe me, we can tell!
2007-06-13 20:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by bAbY_Gurl26^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wrong i know lots of shy girls that would rather go for the quiet guy. the life of the party guy is too high profile anjd there is too much competitoin. the other shy guy seems safer and more lileky to like u back.
2007-06-13 20:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always true. Woman do like the quiet ones to but you got to talk a little. Otherwise how is she to get to know you
2007-06-13 20:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋