Why is my girlfriend doing this?

Question

I hang out with her CONSTANTLY we've been dating for a bit over a year and I give her tons of attention. Thing is when I want to do things with my friends she goes apeshit and gets all mad and stuff. Just recently I asked her what she was doing tonight and when she said nothing I told her that im probably gonna play video games tonight and we agreed. Later buddy of mine asked if i wanted to go see a movie i said sure and now shes telling me that last night we made plans to hang out tonight. WTF?? why is she doing this? Ladies do you get pissed when your guy goes out? (BTW i dont drink, smoke, party, or cheat)

Answer 1

Well it sounds like you made plans with her first. i would get angry if my boyfriend left me in the dust for a friend IF he made plans with me first. Perhaps you should distance yourself slowly so she doesn't feel like your abandoning her all the time. Since you gave her so much attention in the first place she may just be expecting it as a normal thing now. Try to slowly distance yourself and then after a couple weeks ask her if you, a friend and her can do something together if she agrees to that than maybe she will become more comfortable with you spending time with your friend without her.

Answer 2

I dont! I understand when guys need time out with thier own friends. I'd find myself selfish if I didnt let them hang out with their friends. Maybe it was a mis-communication...?

good job on not smoking, drinking, or cheating by the way!!!:)

Answer 3

you are probably the only thing she has for a social life, and misery loves company, so if she has nothing to do she wants you with her. She probably is insecure and does not trust you. Shes also probably immature. You have to ask yourself one question. Are you willing to deal with this forever? Because she will not change.

Answer 4

if you said that you were going to hang out with her, and then instead of that you go with your friends which call you later, then yes, she has the right to get pissed. It will not be because you can hang out with your friends, its because you cancel the plans you had with her (If I am correct) to go out with your friend instead.

Answer 5

girls constantly demand attention and often have possessive-like tendencies over men. All you can do is try not to bend over too backwards, but show her lots of attention. That's all she's looking for is for.

Answer 6

WELLBOOT HER OUT U SOUND LIKE A GOOD BF ... U CAN BE MINE,,,, NAW J/K,, BUT LET HER GO AND SHELL RELIZE WHAT SHES GOT WHEN UR GONE THATS HOW SOME GURLS LIKE IT TO BE WITH A JERK THAN TO RELIZE THAT THEY HAVE SOMETHING GOOD IN FRONT OF THEM AND IT SUX CUZ IM THE OPPOSITE I CANT NEVER FIND A GOOD GUY LIKE THAT BUT HEY LET IT BE HER LOST NOT URS!!!

Answer 7

She is very bored and immature. Do not react to her craziness. YOU are entitled to time with friends. She sounds like she is narcissistic. read about this behavioral disorder. It doesn't improve much even with therapy and medication.

Answer 8

She's controlling. It gives her a sense of power to tell you what to do.

Tell her to back off, and do your own thing. You don't need a control freak in your life and you need to nip that in the butt right now.

Answer 9

she is one selfish female...she want to control the things that you, don't give into her and get out there and have some fun. if she don't like it, tell her to grow up or slip out the back, Jack!

Answer 10

SHE IS MORE LIKELY WORRIED THA YOU MITE CHEAT ON HER TO PROVE THAT YOU WONT WHEN YOUR FRIEND ASK YOU TO THE MOVIES MAKE IT A DATE BUT TAKE YOUR FRIEND WHEN SHE GETS BORED SHE WONT COME ANYMORE