Someone plz help me. I NEED TO STOP?????????

Question

ok. I have been cutting myself and i cant quit. I dont do it for attention. i swear. Iv been doing it for almost a year now. My parents dnt care even though i think they know that i do it. My family life is a mess. I just cnt deal anymore. I need help quiting is there any1 going through the same thing?? And can sum1 tlk to me and try to make me feel a little bit better about myself cuz i feel horrible about doing this cuz it only takes the pain away for 5 minutes and then im back were i started. Thank you so much if you can help.
xx

no rude answers plz.

Answer 1

well then stop!!!

i use to punch my leg when i got fustrated 30 years ago,but i said to my self [why?]

1. my body is a compleatly difrent being than i am. i am just a personality ,resting in a organic being, [ a person in a car]

MY BODY DID NOTHING WRONG, THAT [I] THE PRESONALITY SHOULD --[PUNISH IT] FOR MY PERSONALITYS PROBLEMS.

2. i have no right , to harm my body.for somthing i did.

3.i said .would i do the same thing to a child??my body is a child. so why would i beat up my body when i woulnt beat up a child.
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safe way to get your anger out

1. go in to the woods and find a large dead log, take a big dead stick and beat the crap out of the log.as you beat the log .imagin you are hitting the others that fustrat you

2.put your matrice agains the wall and get some boxing gloves.or put on some winter gloves and beat the crap out of the matrice.untill you are exausted. put a picture of the person you are mad at on top of the matrice. and imagin you are beating up the other person.

beat the matrice with all your might. stop walk away and charg the matrice again and beat it and beat it untill you are totaly exausted, screaming at the other person ,stop and beat it again
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this gets your anger out,and directs it outwawd, NOT INWARD.

your poor child body shoulnt have to seffer for your TRIP. your HANGUP for your PARENTAL SITUATION
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if your parent dont care . go to a counceler .there are a lot of free councelers available at rape chrices centers and stress hot lines and the boys and girls national center that is advertised on the tv all the time.
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start this mantra.....[I LOVE MY SELF]

do it for the next year untill you start to believe it!!!!!!

your mind will say this is a BUNCH OF CRAP .but do it any way.our minds are stupid.

i love my self
i live my self
i love my self......ect

Answer 2

I am a 39 year old female going through the same thing, i googled self injury and found a hospital in Denton texas. The phone number is 1-800-DONTCUT. I have started the paperwork to go there I am in California. I can't say this is normal, we just need to learn some other ways to cope with lifes ups and downs. I think you have done the right thing by reaching out for help. You can also google self injury and self mutilation for support. Good luck. And I understand what you are going through.

Answer 3

Seek mental health help NOW. It may not seem like a big problem but it really is. Go talk to your parent/guardian/friend, have them take you to the hospital and get admitted to inpatient psychiatrics. I am not trying to be mean, but this is serious - I had similar issues and needed to be hospitalized. You need a break from the stress in your life. If you are worried about the money, social services will find a way to get your stay paid for at little or no cost to you. In the hospital you can talk to somebody nonjudgemental who will help you cope. Good luck, and best wishes.

Answer 4

I'm sorry to hear about your problem.I don't cut myself but I am bulemic for 25 years and either way you look at it we're doing harm to our bodies.A 5 minute 'fix' isn't really taking away the pain.Underneath it all,you are depressed in some sort of way and in my opion medical attention can only be helpful.It takes a bigger person to ask for help than a coward who sits back and let's something take over their lives.I don't know you but I believe you are a very sensitive and beautifel person inside and out.I have faith in you that you can take back control of your life.Take that first step.You can do it.I'll pray for you.I wish for you all the love,happiness,and peace of mind with a shot of courage to get through it.God Bless!!

Answer 5

See a professional councellor if you can. That's the best.
Just tell your family you need to see a therapist. You don't have to explain why if you're embarrsed to tell them. Some start asking you questions in hopes to "fix" the problem by telling you that you shouldn't be having the problem in the first place. Tell them you have a few questions that's why you need to see a therapist.
If you think they won't listen, or if they actually won't listen, tell them you need to see a doctor. At doctor's visit, just blurt it out that you cut yourslef. Doctor will be on your side. He/she will do the work of convincing your parents to help you.

Answer 6

DEAR HURTING FOR ATTENTION' I CAN HONESTLY TELL YOU; I sure feel you baby; but realistically you need space; away from your environment..... away from the trauma that is physically and mentally affecting you to abuse your own self. You need to seek out professional help. you can call hotlines or even walk into any emergency and speak whats been happening with your homelife or tell them honestly what you have been doing to youself; the only way to free yourself is by being honest please do not GIVE UP YOU OWE THIS TO YOUR SANITY AND TO RESTART A NEW NURTURING AND LOVING YOURSELF WITHOUT THE APPROVAL OF FAMILY ;;;; I PRAY ALL GOES WELL WITH YOU GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU SAFE ALWAYS,,,,, CHICA

Answer 7

Knowing you needed to stop and asking for help is an excellent first step. This is not a problem that you are likely to solve on your own. Professional help is a must, you are not the only one who has issues like this, you can be helped. Don't give up!!

Answer 8

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Answer 9

I used to cut myself too, Not because of attention, or because I was deppressed, just because I was bored, or I was pissed off at my parents. heres my email... if you ever need to talk, just send me an email, and I will talk you thru it. But first, let me know What started you cuting in the first place.
and have you tried to get proffessional help?



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Answer 10

you keep telling yourself it is for the attention but to me it sounds like a cry for help. if your parents dont care then seek proffessional help they wiiillll care you are loved and your parents im sure do care they just dont want to face your pain and think they werent supplying you with happiness which would make them think they caused you to cut yourself but please i know alot of people that cut and its not yuor last resort people are there for yuo and they will listen and help you.i hopee i helped<33best of luck in your difficult problem