I have been in love with her for a long time. I have known her 8 years and we are extremely close. She has gone out with two of my friends and they don't like her too much anymore. I am afraid that i might lose my best buddies if i do anything. I have spoken to her, but she said that it just won't work. But later she told me that she is still loyal to me, even though we are not together. We always have a good time when we go out and all her friends get along with me. We have EVERYTHING in common. She is also sending me lots of mixed signals. I know that a relationship will work if it is just given a chance. She is planning to go to the UK next year and she asked me to go with. I don't want to lose her. We lost contact for about 4 months due to a cellphone that got stolen. It was horrible. Ever since we started made contact again, i fell this huge gap in my life filled. I havn't been this happy in a long time. She really means the world to me.
2007-06-13 12:31:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why ruin what you already have - girlfriends come and go, but a true best friend will stay with you for a VERY long time...
Maybe some day the two of you will be together romantically - but that won't happen until you are BOTH ready (if ever). She already said "it just won't work" - leave it at that, and enjoy the friendship as it is :)
2007-06-13 12:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwww that is good what you should do is to talk to her make her feel the same way you feeling her and explain to her that let u us go together if she doesn't think it will work tell her that u have to try something new before u say u like it and show her that u are everything to her than anybody else
2007-06-13 19:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by nene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a secret relationship then get serious and open about it. If the guys she has aleready gone out with don't like her then mabye you won't either
2007-06-13 19:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a firm believer that your lover should also be your best friend. and who cares if your buddies get mad if they do then they arent good friends and will be gone later anyway
2007-06-13 19:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by DP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she liked you in that way you would already be going out.....she probablly just wants to be friends.....you sound creepy
2007-06-13 19:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out to dinner and tell her how much she means to you
2007-06-13 19:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by kdizz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋