2007-06-13 12:31:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whatever Troll...
Seroiusly - has any of you taken a look at the idiotic questions this guy has been busy asking...
2007-06-13 12:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a stupid question. It is never fair to use people for money. And it is horrible to consider that women are to be used that way. You're handsome and have muscles. Good for you. There's nothing better you can think of to do with that? Honestly, this is ridiculous. What kind of response were you expecting?
2007-06-13 12:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure Martha Stewart wouldn't mind you using her money. Just as long as you have time to clean her big pool, scrub her toilets, and carry her groceries when she goes shopping. On the side, she can use you to carry her heavy luggage and open her jars for her.
And if you have a big hot dog then that's all she'll ever need. Don't get her mad or she'll have to use her Ginsu knives.
(Temper down steady.....sigh.........)
Honestly....
If you're planning to use women for money, why don't you open a health club? That way, rich women can give you money with no strings attached. You'll be rich and successful by helping others, rather than being a male prostitute with no ambition and morals.
Do it the right way and be kind to others. You will feel more enriched and have inner peace in your life.
Being shallow is not the way to a rich woman's heart by the way. She will toss you in the hamper or the trash can like Martha Stewart would.
2007-06-13 12:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I see your point. What you're really asking is, "Is it fair to one partner when the other uses that partner due to their extraordinary good looks?"
The answer is no. I dumped a girlfriend because she demanded that I spend more money on her. Yuck.
On the topic of men giving gifts to women and buying them things: Many women will take what is available to them (even if they have to be a little manipulative shrew for it), but they will ultimately resent and disrespect a man that gives too much to them.
As a matter of fact, to most pretty women THEIR REALITY is that men kiss up to them and that men will give them what they ask for or demand (worst case, they have to get upset or act bitchy to get their way). AGAIN, THIS IS THEIR REALITY. Men that don't fit this are often just tuned out as if they don't exist in order to keep this reality as pure as possible for them. (Also, I think that these women are becoming more disconnected from real life and the real world simply because fewer and fewer people can relate to them in proportion to how 'beautiful' they are and make themselves.)
Men are often behaving like a** kissers because they are afraid that a woman might get upset and leave, and the fact is that by acting this way, a woman is MORE likely to leave. It's one of those paradoxes that's a self fulfilling prophecy. A woman whines, man say's "Oh, no...I need to kiss her a** or she might leave. Even though she's being ridiculous, I have to go along with it..."
This is bad for her, for you, and for the relationship between you. When my girlfriend acts bratty, I call her on it in a cool, calm way. I don't control her -- I just let her know that she can't control me.
The solution to avoiding being used is to call her on everything. It's very counter-intuitive, but lets them know that you can't be used. Guys, don't kiss a** or do things for them like everyone else. Be different. Expect them to pull their own weight, and call them on their messed up behaviors and issues just as you would a family member.
Not all women do these things, but many do. A lot of men aren't too great, either. Just for the record.
2007-06-13 12:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by hbomb8404 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if that's all you have to offer anyone, can find someone stupid enough to be used by you and don't have a problem being known as a freakin loser, go for it (though I seriously doubt you're "handsom with muscles" (in anything other than your hand, that is).
2007-06-13 12:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong when EITHER gender uses their looks to seduce people for monetary gain. When they end up with a psycho who teaches them a valuable lesson by messing up their looks or taking their life, the lesson is permanent.This happens.
2007-06-13 12:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and use your modesty too. It is always fair to take advantage of people......just think how much you enjoy it when someone does it to you. What a loser
2007-06-13 12:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't take advantage of anyone for financial benefit.
Anymore than anyone would take advantage of you for your delusional behaviour
2007-06-13 12:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its stupid to use women for money
your probably not a good looking as you think
and your muscles must be week if you need women for money
LOSER
2007-06-13 12:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
No one should "use" anyone, for any reason. That goes equally for both men and women.
2007-06-13 12:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mel W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋