She's only a year younger than me and she's about to really tick me off.
2007-06-13 11:18:35 · 20 answers · asked by ~ATL's Finest~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dont tell me to try to get along with her b/c she's family. i've already been there and done that. i don't really mean get rid of her, just put up with her.
2007-06-13 11:31:58 · update #1
It's not just a phase either; unless it's suppose to last years at a time.
2007-06-13 11:38:25 · update #2
just ignore her for a while. It might not be the right time to try to be friends with her. maybe in a few years you can try that. You will never stop loving your sister
2007-06-13 11:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never say things like that about your sister and wish that you never had her as a sister. If something happened to her tonight in a car accident, you will spend the rest of your life regretting those thoughts. Sit down and decide why you dislike her.
1) Are you jealous of her?
2) Is she prettier?
3) Is she thinner?
4) Is she smarter?
5) Does she have more friends?
If any of these are true, start making changes in your own life and be nice to her. You should be friends and not enemies. Life is short. Someday there will only be your sister and you living. She will be the only person in the world that cares what happens to you. You need to fix this today,
2007-06-13 11:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what sisters are for. its better to make friends now, something that life has taught me is that even the best of friends come and go but a sister is in you're life permanently, she will be the only one to see all of your tears and joy. and she will be the only person in the long run that you can say "remember that time when" and she will. a sister is always there, constantly, she knows more about you than anyone else does, including parents. a few years down the road you will realize that there really isn't anyone who can take her place, and i hope you can realize what life would be like without her. because if you push her away now, you will have a life without a best friend. so don't. learn to get along and help each other. you probably have a lot in common, even if you don't think you do.
as you can tell my sister is my best friend, and we fight and she drives me crazy, and sometimes i'd like to punch her in the mouth. and she'd say the same thing about me. but at the end of the day we're still sisters and best friends. i'd be lost without her.
2007-06-13 11:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by stephanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful what you wish for.
And if (God forbid), she were gone tomorrow..(when you really needed her) then how would you feel? I seriously doubt your mother would put her back where she came from. So..just chill, ignore her for awhile and be glad you have a sister..a lot of people would love one and will never experience the ups-and-downs of siblings.
This too shall pass...and when you 'grow up' you'll look back on this time and wonder how you ever said and did the things you're doing. You're the 'older' sister, you should be setting an example for her to follow, not condemning her and wishing she were never born.
2007-06-13 11:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your older to her you should be patient to her. You have no choice no matter how bratty or bad she is, she is your true blood. Try to stay away from her so that you will not be irritated with her that much. We can't avoid that at least one in the family will be black sheep. I hope your sister will not be like that. Maybe in time she'll out grow that attitude of her. As an older sister you should not argue with her always instead show her good values and be a good model to her since both of you are both girls. Also as an older sister it your responsibility to guide or even discipline her as a sister. Don't you think your sister feels happy seeing you reacted that way always so you will be the looser instead.
2007-06-13 11:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by ☺ĦЄŖ§ĦЄ¥☺ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get rid of her... you deal with her. Even though you think you hate your sister, inside you would truly be hurt if something happened to her. If she bothers you, ignore it. If she is really getting on your nerves, do something to get away like escape to a friends house or hop in the shower. Maybe try to understand her and just laugh it off when she is annoying. Don't sweat it... things will turn around.
2007-06-13 11:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by no it all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.My sister is a 2 years younger than me and she's also about to tick me off.
Try to stay away from her or go out with friends alot that way you'll be far way from her.
2007-06-13 11:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Loveless 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to stop answering dumb questions like this. Your sister is your family member you can't just drop her off on the side of the road every time you get mad at her. You need to get used to it. Maybe treat her nicely and she will treat you back nicely. I know that if I am nice to my lil brother he will be so nice to me. Don't do anything that you will ever regret to your lil sister because one day you will need her. ♥
2007-06-13 11:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
everyones younger sibling annoys them, even mine. but that doesnt mean you gotta get rid of them! deep down inside, you know you love her.
just find something for her to keep busy and try to talk to her.
2007-06-13 11:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now Now. It will get better. You'll be glad to have her once you get through this phase. Siblings have unconditional love for one another. Sure we get mad at them but we will always love them and be there for them no matter what. Ask her what you do to drive her crazy...
2007-06-13 11:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋