my gf of 3 yrs told me that she wants to see me with another woman. She also has been corresponding with her ex. I have been loyal and put a stop to the "ex thing" personally. After the "ex thing" was over, she brought up this proposition to me. I haven't done it because I think it is a trap. We have a kid together. My question, do women sometimes get off on watching their man with another woman or is this going to be used against me if I do it?
2007-06-13 11:05:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hard to say - it COULD be a trap, or perhaps your g/f wants to "open up" your relationship. I would talk to her about it, and ask why she wants to see you with someone else...
Perhaps she is a little bi-curious, or wants to experiment with threesomes - just be aware that the threesome door swings both ways (you might end up sharing her with another guy)
If any of this is something you don't feel comfortable about doing (even with her blessing) - than DON'T do it. Plain and simple - just tell her that you only want HER - and NO other woman.
If she said that is was ok for you to see other girls when she WASN'T there - then I'd worry...
2007-06-13 11:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are very very very few women who would want to see that. I'm sure there are some out there though, so I guess it's a possibility. It's much more likely that she's just trying to distract you with someone else so that she can be with the ex again.
2007-06-13 18:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT's A TRAP!!!!! do not do it!!! you will regret it dude...... Us gals do not get off in seeing our man doing it with another chick :) plain and simple unless your g.f is abit wacked out or trying to justify her self by making you screw up so that she can do the same but behind your back (sorry) Just the thought of my man being with someone else argh gets my blood boiling hot l.o.l. it's what we call jealousy.... we do not share plain and simple...... DO NOT DO IT!!!
2007-06-13 18:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
nnoo.woman hate to see a new girl with there ex. letalong her man it's either a trap or she doesn't want you no more.or when you yell at her she gone say "you was with your ex i can't be with mine."she gonna say that when get a idea that she cheating in you.
2007-06-13 18:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by jaquisha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is a trap. Yes, she will use it against you. She WILL sleep with her ex or someone else if she hasn't already cheated on YOU.
2007-06-13 18:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your committed to this relationship, but she's not. don't do it. if you have sex with another girl, she's going to throw it up in your face for the rest of your life. then their is also the issue of what sleazy woman was chosen and what diseases does she have. don't do it.
2007-06-13 18:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend brought a girl home for this kind of thing, then she talked **** about her afterwards, but not about me
2007-06-13 18:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by desperadooutlawjc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants a "license" to be with another man.
2007-06-13 18:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya better take your child and run. If she wants to be with other people, let her. Just make sure you dont do anything wrong.`
2007-06-13 18:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by Moose 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well man it sound like she wants some excitement in your relationship, but also sounds like a trap to me. what you should do is sit your girl down and have her pick out the girl for you and so that at least she knows who you are seeing, but also get a tape recorder and tape it but dont let her know you are recording everything that she is telling you. i know this sounds messed up but you have to protect yourself in case she tries to use it against you and you can pop that tape out and let her here what she was telling you. good luck
2007-06-13 18:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by RAY G 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋