At my school it seems like EVERYONE is in a relationship except me. I am not really interested in having a bf right now because I am shy and I don't feel ready although I do have a lot of crushes. I am 15 by the way. I don't even think that I will get a bf in high school because I am shy and I would rather not take too much time away from my family and friends. Will people make fun of me and will I never get a bf because I am inexperienced? Did anyone start dating AFTER high school?? Thanx for the advice!!!
2007-06-13 11:04:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you don't feel that you are ready - don't jump into dating just because "everyone else is". Not only won't you enjoy yourself, but THEN you might get a reputation as a girl that's not worth dating...
The only people who would "make fun" of you are immature morons - and who cares what they think?
You'll know when the time is right - perhaps you just haven't met anyone who is really worth dating... :)
2007-06-13 11:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didnt date till after graduation from High School. I think because I lived in the projects - I wasnt accepted too well. But - I met this quiet, not so cute guy. And we got married. And now this ugly little thing brings home almost $100,00 a year. I have a new car/suv every 3 years. I live in a home worth $345,000. He was worth giving up the childhood dating stuff for. We are happy. And in love. And have 2 kids!
Good things come to those who wait.
2007-06-13 11:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Shoshee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure not EVERYONE in your school has a boyfriend/girlfriend, it just seems that way. it's okay to not be interested in being in a relationship too. school/friends/work/family/etc. take up enough time as it is. also, it's totally okay to be shy, and if people are stupid enough to make fun of you for that or not date you because of that, then they aren't really worth your time anyway.
2007-06-13 11:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by *amanda* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don`t worry about it once you out of school you probably wont ever even see half the people you went to school with ever again and if a older person would make fun of you then their not worth being with anyway
2007-06-13 11:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't date till you're ready...things will just be awkward and yoiu'll feel uncomfortable. you'll know when you want to go out with someone, and onl then should you act upon it. and besides, i bet there are a lot fewer couples in your h.s. than you think - it always seems like a worse situation when you're overthinking it.
2007-06-13 11:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey thats ok!!!! don worry. take ur own sweet time. don give a damn of wht others think. b confident of urself. i had a bf whn i was 13 but doesnt make a difference. dint hav much fun though. 2 young. gud luck honey!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-13 11:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm hey wats up i havnt even started to date yet and im in the same situation as u evertyone has someone and i feel lonely so your are not the only one left out
2007-06-13 11:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by joshua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 26 and still doesn't h've a gf. Any advice you little girl?
2007-06-13 11:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by rjshdvds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. 15 is too young for a boyfriend.
2007-06-13 11:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if people make fun of you say " bac of *********" an d move on ...im in middle school and i started dating wen i was in elementery but................ i didnt make fun of people because they didnt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! its a *********.Y thing to do id rather NOT hurt som1s feelings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
but if you start and decide you like it the guy who answered befor me, Joshua, he is SINGLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOL
Hope i helped out Beauty :)
2007-06-13 11:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by I LOVE DRAKE SPICER 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋