kept leaving for the bathroom and talked on the phone a lot (some of the calls were from his mom) - and then later told me that there was a good friend at the bar that he knew in highschool and hadn't seen her in 9 years. Would you give him a second date or not?
2007-06-13 11:00:21 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That guy is rude.. SOoOoO RUDE. If you need convincing then just pretend that he was going to the bathroom to scratch his butt. He was probably walking back and forth past the bar in hoping that the girl would notice him and say hi. If she was a good friend then how come he hadnt seen her in 9 years? Nope no second date from me, no friggin way, wouldnt even consider. And if this guy is constantly getting calls during dinner and answers it?! that sucks.. he should of turned his phone off inless someone close to him is having a baby ya know.. and his mom?! GOODNESS... this guy seems more trouble then he's worth (not that I know really, just guessing lol) ok.. so no second date is my opinion. Good luck and happing dating!
2007-06-13 11:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by calimija_619 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is one of the biggest no-nos of a first date - Turn off the damn cellphone, and pay attention to the person you are on the date with!
If he can't take a few hours out of his "busy" schedule for you, then he isn't worthy of taking you out on a first date. This behaviour is rude on ANY date - but the first is supposed to be about learning all you can about the person you hope will start a relationship with.
He doesn't deserve someone as wonderful and caring as you - he just wants to "hang with his boys", hit on chicks "he used to know in highschool", and do whatever he can to get in your pants...
RUN FOR THE HILLS!
2007-06-13 12:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were a guy and the girl did this on our date ..... I'd ask her out again and tell her to leave the phone in the car. Or, I'd make it clear that the phone is turned off and left in the car or at home.
There is no way that a phone should be more important than you are on your date.
Kev n Jan
2007-06-13 11:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by Hobgoblin Kev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he wasn't into you enough to give you his undivided attention then he doesn't deserve a second date and probably doesn't want one. What a jerk! Did he not even offer to introduce you to his long lost friend? Maybe he is a mama's boy and can't make a decision without her? What ever the reason he sounds like a real jerk, very self centered!
2007-06-13 11:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by Smarty Pants 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only one more, and that would be if he asked or begged. If he did the same thing--never again. Seems pretty risky that he may be a player. If he's doing that to you on the first date when people are usually on their best behavior then I can only imagine more horrible things happening later on. So--he would need to REALLY impress me the second or Buh-bye!
2007-06-13 11:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by Whitney F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no because normally when a guy keeps leaving means that he is not that interesting in you to stay and if there was a good friend at the bar that probably means that he has or had old feelings for her and they might arise again and you don't want to be in the middle and get your feelings hurt besides there are to many fishes in the sea to only look at one.
2007-06-13 11:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by kemmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't. He obviously didn't have his undivided attention on you and its just plain out rude to talk on the phone that much during a date. And he could of told that person he'd talk to them later cause he was on a date. He seems like a mess.
2007-06-13 11:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never! If he treatsyou like that in the first date imagine how he will treat you in the long run! Guys are usually nervous and at the same tim curious to get to know you in the first date. This guy is a loser!
2007-06-13 11:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i probably wouldn't go out with anyone a second time after an experience like that. it's pretty rude - a "date" is supposed to be a time for the two of you, not three plus phone calls.
2007-06-13 11:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by Kate 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. What mother calls her son repeatedly while he's on a date unless he's a total Momma's Boy (or if she's dying or something). Okay, if you really like him, give him another chance... but if the same thing happens, run!
2007-06-13 11:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by pokecheckme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋