if not, what should we do about these urges ?
2007-06-13 10:00:39 · 23 answers · asked by happy happy 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
lol....i think its okay to have pre marital sex...
about the urges...theres many options that are available
2007-06-13 10:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if a person practices safe sex and isn't promiscuous, that it can be a good thing. You get to experiment and when you find the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with, you won't have the urge to try new things because you will have found everything you are looking for.
Some people say you don't want what you've never had and that if you only sleep with one person, you don't want for anyone else, but that's not always true. Sometimes when people wait for marriage to have sex, after some time, they wonder what else is out there and all that jazz.
It's a personal decision to wait until marriage to have sex. I admire people who have that type of self control and I'm quite sure it feels amazing to know that you were able to do something like that. But I don't judge anyone who doesn't wait.
2007-06-13 17:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Kristen*~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe in it. It exists. I've seen it and had it.
If a person WANTS (not coerced on threat of sin or damnation) to wait until marriage to have sex, that is totally cool.
But at the same time, sex is a normal biological drive. Marriage, on the other hand, is simply a cultural and religious norm. Some people don't want to get married. Should they then never have sex? Others are completely justified in subscribing to a religion that does not demonize premarital sexual activity. Think of it this way... we don't try to arrest people in foreign countries for breaking laws that only exist in ours, do we?
Avoidance of natural, biological urges is one of the biggest misconceptions of strictly religious, typically ultra-conservative folks. Responsibility is a big thing when it comes to sex, but to stigmatize the entire act is an atrocious mistake.
2007-06-13 17:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't believe in pre-marital sex. I am a single Mom and I pray when I get a urge. God will send me the man I should marry and I will wait on him.
2007-06-13 17:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by kimberly m 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The Baptists don't believe in pre-marital sex because it leads to dancing.
2007-06-13 17:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"I assure you, it exists."
What's your moral compass? I know what my Church teaches, and I know what my conscience & my heart say. I make my decisions based on that, and by considering what harm or good could come from an action.
That said, I believe I shall keep my conclusions private.
If you wish to avoid it, then turn to what they used to call "self-abuse." Keep an iron grip on your emotions and lusts (that's difficult I know), and your pants on at all times. If you're for it, make sure it's not just a random lay--you should have some genuine affection for your partner in a such a situation) and take precautions for the sake of your health if nothing else.
2007-06-13 17:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Library Queen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All the sex I ever had so far was non-marital , I don't think pre-marital sex exists, I'm not too sure that marital sex exists either.
2007-06-13 17:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by CHEESUS GROYST 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I believe it exists...
I don't believe it is the best idea...
Did I wait? No...
Do I hope my daughter waits? Yes...
Mormons don't even masturbate...ask them how they do it. Will power, prayer and meditation I'm sure.
Plus the idea of endangering someone else's virtue, it is quite honorable to deny someone premarital sex if both individuals are of the same belief that God doesn't like fornication.
2007-06-13 17:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by ♫O Praise Him♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since I can't legally get married, I guess all my sex will be pre-marital.
2007-06-13 17:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by Moxie! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most definately....and if you dont believe in pre-marital sex, then i guess you need to take matters into your own hands!
Blessed Be
2007-06-13 17:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by trinity 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋