my wife and i have frequent fights.she says truth about her bad past.but just find it hard not to feel bad?

Question

i am always careful about the steps i take and i dont want my wife to make any mistakes.

Answer 1

making mistakes is part of life and how we learn. some times its best to let someone learn on their own.

Answer 2

People always and continuously make mistakes, it is the nature of being human. No doubt you fight alot because you personally have difficulty accepting your own flaws let alone hers. Suggest that you would benefit hugely from some counselling.