I'm in the computer lab at school, right? And I'm typing up an e-mail message to my mother and this girl sitting behind me shouts out, "Hey!" I look behind me and this ***** stares at me for 15 seconds and says, "You're killin' that keyboard, aren't you?" I'm STILL pissed off about this sh1t!!!!! I understand that I was typing really fast, but I didn't realize that I was pressing the keys TOO loudly and hard! She just basically disrespected me!!!!!!! I just want to get up right now and call her a ***** to her face because I don't appreciate this ***** disrespecting me like that!!!! She could have just said to me, "Excuse me, but you're typing a little bit too loudly. Can you please type a little bit softer?" That would've been better. Why is it that we Black people like to be mean to each other? And I know that Black women are the meanest women when it comes to getting angry, but I DON'T give a F*** because I'm a brotha and I WILL get ugly with ANY female of ANY race!
2007-06-13 09:39:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I think it is really sad that you let this girl upset you so much. You shouldn't let her get to you. Brush it off. There are worse things in life. She's not important.
(And I'd bang even harder on those keys).
2007-06-13 09:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by lawmom 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all don't take this the wrong way, but you definitely need to chill out. You have so much anger inside of you and for what??? Do not let other people get your blood pressure up, it's just going to cause you to get old quick. Just ignore people that piss you off or else you will just end up being mad at the world. And I know, because I could hold a grudge for years!!! Not worth it!
2007-06-19 00:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kyra B. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is probably mad at you because of the noise of the keyboard. I bet she is also jellous because you can type faster then she does. I mean some of my friends get mad when I'm typing because I type 73 words per minute and who knows if not more. To be honest with you don't waist your time with her. Try to be nice even though she was rude to you. Dude I thought that you were nice but now I'm starting to think that you are not. I don't like guys that treat girls like crap. If a guy hit me I would beat the sh1t out of him. I do kick boxing so I don't let no one hit me. Thank God my mom and dad don't hit me. But I get down with any one that treats me like sh1t. Let's not talk about races either because I'm Puerto Rican and like I don't like to have a reputation a bad one I mean as a Puerto Rican. Well I wish you good luck and don't be abusive cuz it aint good.
*MS.G*
2007-06-14 19:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by *ARMY GIRL* (*MS.G*) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was jealous 'cause she cant type that fast. lets leave the races out of this. she was probably just pmsing or something. its good to try and settle things nicely first before they get worse i think. otherwise you walk around p*ssed all day. if theyre still a b*tch then tell them that. whatever you do dont shoot anyone please. try making a joke. when you make people laugh it'll make you feel better without going to jail for punching somebody. everyones a comedian
I UNDERStand though, some people like to control everything you do like its all about THEM. good luck!
2007-06-21 14:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by get dent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mean ppl are every where..and i doubt that only ppl of color deserve such merits as u have mentioned in ure question...someone is getting nosy...is getting nosy. period.
Sometimes humour helps...but there are also occassions when u dont want any humour..A cold stare may suit such times....
The main goal is, why let someone else control ur mood. nobody should get the better of u and make u loose ure cool...chill out bro...life has got bigger problems...
if u really feel snappish with her...smthg rauchy would shut up even the most nastiest of women...she will get the hint that her comments arent welcome....its not the best of advise..but it would serve the purpose...but maintain ure cool and move on..take care...
2007-06-14 01:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by bond2K 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Learn to laugh it off. I think that you may have been getting to defensive. I would have thought it was a joking way of saying I was typing really hard. You probably should have just laughed at her joke and then said "sorry, I didn't realized I was typing so hard." I'm sure it wasn't worth getting so upset over. Actually, I type really hard too, and sometimes I think to myself "you're killing this typewriter," and then I laught at myself.
2007-06-20 20:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by whosonfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down there! She was VERY rude but you are getting too upset. Getting ugly with females is not something to brag about. Just let it slide.
2007-06-13 18:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by fun_purple_beach 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
dont let it get to you , is not worth it , i use to have really bad temper and when people would come up talking sh*t to me i would tell them straight up to f**ck off and i would be mad for a hot min after that but now whenever some one acts like that i get so sarcastic they cant stand me at the end and when some one tells me im a b**ch for being like that ,i tell them im glad u still remember my name lol my point is they got nothing better to do , dont let it waste your time . : )
2007-06-14 01:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by Nashira 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She was just pushin your buttons, and it seems she was doin a good job of it. If it bothers you calmly ask her to back off, After that tell the B! tch.
2007-06-21 16:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jezmanrulz-PWC-WRW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeeeew !!!! calm down !
so you met some uncooth hoochie in the lab, GET OVER IT !!!! If you're gonna get this mad and your still in school, you'll probably go postal when you meet some of these dumb m*f*ers in the working world....
2007-06-19 23:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by bebop_music 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋