We work at a hospital and he used to be a personal trainer in college. I voiced my opinion about wanting to get toned and he offered to help me after hours. Should I take him up on that offer or is it inappropriate to do this outside of work?
2007-06-13 07:52:28 · 13 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
My boyfriend thinks he's trying to get in my pjs
2007-06-13 07:58:04 · update #1
yes especially if the doctor is young and you work with him....
2007-06-13 10:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by bust15nutz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say that's inappropriate. If you let him train you, and he does put the moves on you, it will be very hard to work with him afterwards. Plus, you want a trainer who is current on their certification and knowlege. Lots of gyms and trainers run summertime specials. Maybe your boyfriend could join you so you could work out together?
2007-06-13 10:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky. Where was he thinking of doing this? Is there a gym u both use, so that u would be in a public place? Do u trust this man? How well do u know him? I think my advice would be not to do it, but he does have experience & might be just what u need. Tread carefully. Hope this helps.
2007-06-13 07:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by SKCave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is perfectly ok as long as it is after hours business, and YOU keep it appropriate. If you have doubts ask yourself these questions? Would your mate disapprove? Would his mate disapprove? Would you pay him (money) like any other trainer? Is there any chance of a romance developing? Is this Doctor your boss?
2007-06-13 07:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're worried about that, bring your boyfriend and make it a couple's thing.
If you were going to be alone with him at your house or his, then yes, that would be inappropriate. If you're going to be at a public gym then probably not. But respect your boyfriend's feelings.
2007-06-13 08:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Hamlette 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should make this a swinger thing. Ask his wife to work out your boyfriend. Then everyone wins in the end.
2007-06-13 08:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by LeBron 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 03:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess it depends on how hot you already are. If you are younger than him, hot looking, but just want to tone up? No. I would not do it.
2007-06-13 07:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by Momwithaheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, That is Appropriate!
2007-06-13 07:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try asking your boyfriend...
2007-06-13 07:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋