me and my ex has just became back friends after a being broke up for about 10 months. We are finally getting along. He tells me he just wants to be friends, but when he came over, he was laying on the floor with me and i was laying under him and i looked at him and kissed him on the cheek, and he turned his head and we started to kiss, and since that moment all that day, its what he wanted to do, but then when ii said i love you to him, he wouldnt say it back. Is he playing games?
2007-06-13 07:09:08 · 38 answers · asked by POOKIE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems to me that this person cares about you to an extent but he does not want a relationship with you. If you do want a relationship with him whatever you do DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM! if you do , there will be nothing left for him to try and get, and he will be gone. Make him wait as long as it takes for him to fall in love with you, that is how I got the man I am with. Hes the most gorgeous man Ive ever seen in real life, and I have been with him for ten years ,he could sleep with any woman he wanted too, but not me, that is what made him fall for me. You see, men always want what they think they can't have, so make him think he can't have you. At least long enough for him to fall hopelessly in love with you, like my honey did with me.
2007-06-13 07:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Crissy Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!!
Girl I'am sorry to say he is playing you.
He only want's you for that moment and most likely only want's sex, he most likely has other girl's he is fooling around with but is keeping you at that.
Don't take his bullshit ur stronger than that, U have the power to kick his ***, so do so.
Who is he to play with your feeling like that, I'am so angry at what he is doing to you.
Take charge girl U deserve so much better, u don't need that monkey in your life.
Move forward you will find that guy who really wants' to be with You and only you.
U don't need him girl for God's sake he is not even your friend as a true friend would consider your feeling and not play with you.
I Hope You Ok, And I know u'll do the right thing.
Take Care
Neville
2007-06-13 07:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by neville_ram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH girl!!! Dont let him play you! if he loved you he would have said it back. he is just trying to get some booty. Dont let yourself fall into his trap.He is playing games and giving you false hope, He kisses you but yet he wont tell you he loves you sounds a lilttle shady. Put your foot down and tell him either hecommits to you or you just remain friends . no in between. cause hes is thinking that he can get with you and also with other females at the time. hes a player.
2007-06-13 07:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! He wants all the extras with out the responsibility! He probably just wants the live the "FREE" (single) lifestyle, but isn't ready to let you slip away. Don't play his games. If he wants to be able to kiss you and be close with you like that then he should be with you and no one else.
Stay strong and don't give him what he wants >>>I don't even know you but all women are worth more than that.
2007-06-13 07:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by Hi-D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he's not playing games. He wants you as a friend but a friend that give him the goods.
Stop allowing yourself to be treated wrongly. Get some self esteem about yourself and cut the ties with this ex-bf. He had no business lying on you as you had no business allowing him to be on top of you...
2007-06-13 07:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should stay away from that. He is just taking what he can get without making a commitment. I would definitely tell him to make up his mind, if he doesn't want to be with you completely then you should just move on. I wouldn't even try for real friendship when he treats you that way.
2007-06-13 07:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Buck Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are opportunist given a chance. It simply means he just want physical pleasure from you but wouldn't get committed emotionally. A lot of men are like that, being intimate means nothing to them but just a medium of release of their libido. Hope this enlighten you even just a bit
2007-06-13 07:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by beth_dyosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means hes playing games and it aint worth it let him go after you have a relationship with someone it is to hard to just be friends it turns in to friends with benifits and after they get what they want they go off and find them another girl their are plenty more guys out their you can do better
2007-06-13 07:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by kaylee and brian jr's mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Leave him alone! He just wants to get some ***! A guy is trying to do the same thing to me right now, give him the cold shoulder!
2007-06-13 07:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to have a physical relationship without any commitments.
2007-06-13 07:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋