ok when you first had boyfriend (well that your parents knew of)did ur parents start treating you a bit differently? if they did what did they do?
2007-06-13 06:11:49 · 18 answers · asked by Soon-to-Be College Grad! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My parents push me to get a boyfriend.
2007-06-13 06:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by R.A.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just treated me like the 14 year old I was. They made sure they got to meet the boy and had him to the house, for meals, and we sometimes went on family outings together. We were allowed to go to my room to listen to music, but my parents put their head round the door sometimes, just to make sure everything was ok. Naturally, this was not the boy that I gave my virginity to. That was much later when I was able to go out and stay out all night if I wanted.
2007-06-13 13:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Normsgirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine became a little more protective. they wanted to know everything about him and meet him eventually. I think its normal for some parents to raise concern when their daughter starts to date. The thing is - when your a teen there are a million things you are going through and sometimes relationships just make things worse so they were very careful to let me have my fun, but make sure it stayed innocent. They did not want me to do anything that would hurt me.
If they are treating you different - sit them down and talk to them. If they have concerns ... maybe have them meet this new boy in your life to calm their concerns.
2007-06-13 13:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by wildkuntry07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the 1st time i had a bf my mom new and not my dad....my mom acted the same with my but she wud tell me dat he did not look like a good guy and she was right but i realized that a lil later. now i have a bf and both my parents know and they do not treat me different becuz day they like ma bf.
2007-06-13 13:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my parents did not treat me differently.
2007-06-13 13:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They kept an eye on me more. Questioned everything just like a true parent should.
2007-06-13 13:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they didn't really treat me differently, they were just a little more cautious when i asked if i could go out. just talk to them about it, if you ask them to have a conversation about it they will know that you are mature enough to have a boyfriend in the first place.
2007-06-13 13:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first they were a lil skeptical, because all parents worry about their "little girls" finally growig up and having boyfriends, but after a while he proved to my folks that he actually cared about me and my well being, after that everything was pretty much chill
2007-06-13 13:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by knn992000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they didnt treat me any different...but the reason they probably treat you different is because they feel that if they can try to keep you around them they figure you ownt make any dumb mistakes.....but they should treat you like a little kid they should just let you learn from your mistakes...
2007-06-13 13:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by love hurts. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, my parents don't know yet,LOL. But if they did.....yeah, they might be a bit upset. They prbly would think that I'm too young. I'm 14.
2007-06-13 22:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by rachelgsmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋