i've known this boy for 2 years now and when we go into a room.. i want to have sex..but i don't knnow how to start it and to give him the idea that i wnat to have it with him?? PLZ HELP ME!!!
2007-06-13 04:51:54 · 30 answers · asked by Fred J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start acting sexy and tell him what you want, make sure it is what you really want.
2007-06-13 04:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Please Help.
OK your name is FRED? Are you a boy/man or a girl?
If you are a GIRL then this answer is for you, if you are a man who should go to jail. If you are a boy I would say my response is not for you cause I can't speak about what I don't know.
I hope you are a girl. Ask him is he ready to marry you and if not WAIT. If you don't want to wait for your husband, then hear ya go.
One important thing you should really consider is whether or not you are WILLING TO LOSE the Friendship if you have sex with this man. Also, if you are not ready for babies, or diseases, or emotional pain, please consider "holding your frisbee" Like Tyler Perry Madea would say.
If you are not able to control your sexual desires and masterbating is not working for you, and you have considered the fact you might lose a friend, then this is what I would say.
He could be waiting on you to make the first move, AND he could want the same thing you want but is just afraid. I think you BOTH should TALK ABOUT IT. Ask him does he think he wants to take your friendship to a new level? If he asks what that is be honest and let him know that you want him to make love to you. IF he says he is not ready yet, then STOP!! Don't force it, control yourself. If he stands there like a door knob he is confused and doesn't know what do to. If he says nothing ask him how does he feel about the question you just asked him? If he says OK lets do it, STOP and ask him for protection. ITS ALL ABOUT CONTROL and not making UNECESSARY mistakes. BOTH OF YOU go and get the condoms, EVEN IF YOU ARE ON BIRTHCONTROL, GET CONDOMS.
Then, play some soft music, TAKE A SHOWER, light some candals, allow him to undress you, or ask if he want you to undress yourself and he watch. Then kiss him softfly. PUT ON THE CONDOM, and enjoy your experience.
Do you know if you would be his first? Do you know if he just wants ONLY a friend and MAY NOT BE ATTRACTED TO YOU? Do you even know if he is attracted to you. Just because you are with someone for that long and haven't had sex doesn't mean they are attracted to you. He may just appreciate the friendship. Don't get angry if this is the case. Find someone who wants you the way you want them, keep your friendship with this man, who knows it may be another few years before he comes around if at all. DONT ASSUME he wants YOU!! Also DO ASSUME he is AFRAID. He is a man you know and they do have fears. TAlk to him about it I only hope he will be honest with you. AND FOR YOU, LISTEN and accept his answer. Don't try to get what you want, and not respect what the other person wants.
Daughters of Jeruselum, DO NOT AWAKEN LOVE BEFORE ITS TIME.
2007-06-13 05:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by Makedah S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to take off his cloths. Guys like it when girls are agressive and go from there. Or wear a skirt and no panties and lay on the bed and let him see what you have for him. I'm sure he will know what to do. And if that doesn't work rub your hand over his c*ck while your kissing him and wisper in his ear that you want that right now. If you get no response he is either dead or gay. Have fun and good luck
2007-06-13 04:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by pmk5252 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If after 2 years you don't feel comfortable enough to start things leading to sex. Then your to young to have sex. Like you said a boy there fore you must be a girl. What I mean by that both are kids.
2007-06-13 04:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some boys are just like that, they never do things we wanted them to do. I'm afraid you just to have hug and start kissing him to initiate.
2007-06-13 04:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? He seems young and so are you. Once you give hime sex, that is all he'll want. Then he'll just want it from someone else so don't do it until you're older.
2007-06-13 04:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by whobeme021 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would talk to him about it. Be honest and tell him you want to have sex with him. If you don't want to tell him you can just start by being affectionate towards him!
2007-06-13 04:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by turbo_1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years and no sex?? Just rip your clothes off. He'll probably do the rest.
2007-06-13 04:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by internetnooborlyyarly 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when your making out just place your hand between his legs and rub there a little.. until you feel somthing very hard and long... at that time unzip his zipper and take it out.. hold it and it goes on from there... you will both have fun... he will be doing sort of the same thing with you.. and between your legs... making you very wet...
2007-06-13 05:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by eliminating the clothing aspect :)
2007-06-13 04:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just start flirting with him and start hugging him. He's a guy..he'll get the idea.
2007-06-13 04:56:21 · answer #11 · answered by mimi66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋