My question is will you allow this guy who messed you up inpregnant you again
2007-06-13 04:29:59 · 39 answers · asked by lucy a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has messed you up then definately not.
2007-06-13 04:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ylang-Ylang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucy ...girl you gotta grow a set and fast!
You are a strong independent momma and don't need a coward with no commitment!
Whatever promises he made don't believe for a minute! He is trying to control you and 'hell' if he hasn't even put a ring on your finger then 'no way' should you give him the time of day.
Play hard ball with this SOB and show him you don't need him, and tell him that your not prepared to let him ruin your life just to make his sorry *** happy!
No more babies girl until you sort out your finances and security, after all baby and momma come first , in his case hes his own priority, who's just horny and no good. If he loved you he would have at least made a commitment with an engagement ring!
Take his money but offer him no honey...and go get yourself a real man not a boy!
2007-06-13 04:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by celtic_colieen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you determine that this fellow 'messed her up'? Did you ever consider that some people go into a relationship with their eyes open and decide once they are told that a baby is to be the outcome to have the child? Marriage is a man-made creation; love, sex and dedication are natural occurances which cannot be made legitimate by a legal document.
2007-06-13 04:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a child with someone is no reason to marry them, it's a mutual agreement between the both of you, if he messed you up then either leave or talk and try and make it work. If you don't get along don't have more kids split up
2007-06-13 04:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Honey B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because he's, not going to marry ...because why because he is an jerk...Men think why should i marry the cow , when i get the mailk for free.This man is look at why? because she already doing what an wife is surpoe to do for me and i have not even given her a ring,,,having my kids, clean my house, making my dinner, and when ever i want to have sex it, there....Baby girl , i went thought the same thing with mine....if you really want this man to marry you, You are going have to stand up to him, and put your foot down, tell that you are not going to put up with....and if decide to leave then he wasn't man enough for you anyway and you need better for you and your, and real man....because the longer you let this go on the longer he's going to feel like he can
2007-06-13 04:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by martha h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucy, you can't force someone to marry you, baby or no baby. Are you still with this guy?Under no circumstances get pregnant again (if you are talking about yourself that is). If this guy has really messed you around then break up with him if you haven't already or go to relationship counselling to try and sort your relationship out.
2007-06-13 04:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you have the baby, to trap him into marraige? Sounds like both of you need to grow up. Having a baby to someone doesnt mean they have to marry,next time take precautions. If as you say he messed you up, why did you let him? AND.... why would you even be considering letting him mess you up a second time? Or dont you take responsibility for your own actions? God, with parents like you!!!!!!
2007-06-13 04:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends! if this guy didnt want to marry you.... or be with you then you'd be a fool to even have sex with him again. on the other hand... some men just dont want to get married! but you need to decide if that is what you want.because having children is a life time commitment it should be with a man you are in a mutual relationship with (although this is not always the case!)
2007-06-13 04:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! Do not let him do it again without a ring on your finger. From my standpoint as a father of 3 daughters and 20 years of marriage.......if that guy has the balls to get you pregnant then he better have the balls to take care of the baby.
2007-06-13 04:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by gatorfleet_bm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you have a mans baby doesnt mean he has to marry you...you should have thought about that b4 you started havin sex...and to answer your question if he messed you up #1 why would you want to mess with him again and #2 having another baby of his still wont make him want to marry you...
2007-06-13 04:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. Do you want him to impregnate you and not marry you. Not accept your children that you bear by him. Are you ready to bring a child into this world without a father. Are you ready to face society for your child's sake. Personally, i will not let him impregnate me again and neither will i bring a child into this world out of wedlock.
2007-06-13 04:36:16 · answer #11 · answered by sabrewilde666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋