Is this bad....?????

Question

Ok im 13 and i did it 3 times...people say in my school i will get std or aids, is it bad for me to sleep with different guys at my age?

Answer 1

honey, you're thirteen. please don't have sex. masturbate if you want to, but sex can lead to a million different types of std's or aids. you're so young and you don't even know who you are yet, so before you go and be with different guys in sexual ways, discover yourself, guys don't make you complete. only a spiritual journey inside you mind and outside your world can do that.

Answer 2

It's bad for a number of reasons.

First, 13 is too immature to understand the consequences of having sex. You might feel you are ready and know what you are doing, but you're not. Your body and mind are still developing and it's hard to understand all the emotions and physical feelings associated with sex. I started having sex with my long term boyfriend when I was 16 years old. Looking back on it now, I was still too immature at 16 and probably should have waited a little longer. I contracted two incurable STDs when I was 17, and thank god I didn't end up pregnant.

Secondly, there are several STDs out there, and about half of them have no cure. You could possibly contract a STD like HIV. If you contract HIV and it develops into AIDS you will DIE from this. There is no cure! My uncle died from AIDS and it is an AWFUL way to die!

And last, but not least, you could become pregnant. If you do become pregnant you'll most likely drop out of school and never finish. You're life is now that baby. It's going to need you 24/7. Forget going out with friends, going to prom, and all the things that young girls do.

Please be more responsible about this. If you still going to have sex even after all the people on here have suggested you not do, AT LEAST protect yourself. ALWAYS use condoms and see if you can get on some kind of birth control. Good luck to you and stay safe!

Answer 3

You're very young and having sex this early in life can lead to a number of negative things...

1. Pregnancy -- having a baby really will put a damper into your social life. No more going out and having fun. Being a mom is a 24/7 job that a 13 year old is just not ready for.

2. STD's -- well, the best case scenerio with having an STD is that you'll be red and itchy and need antibiotics. Worst case scenerio is death. In between these scenerio's is a wide range of unpleasantries -- tumors, cancer, sterility -- take your pick. I don't think most 13 year olds want any of those things...

3. Your reputation -- no one wants to be friends with the class whore - no one except the guys she's servicing... Is this what you want -- I don't think so...

Think about it - what do you want in life - if your want to be the class slut with a baby on the way and a case of herpes then you'll certainly succeed with your curent actions. BUT if you want a chance at college and a good job. A great husband and kids some day - at the right time.... then please, rethink your actions.

Answer 4

You must think it is because you are writing in here. Yes, I think that it is really bad for someone your age to be having sex, especially since you admitted that it is more than 1 partner. Seriously, where is your mother or father or whoever takes care of you? Do they know what you are doing? And yes, you can get any STD and HIV/AIDS without using protection. And at your age, how would your "partner" buy condoms? Unless you are with someone who is much older. I hope you can talk to an adult that you trust and let them know that you are sexually active so that you can get tested and get on some kind of birth control or STAY AWAY FROM SEX!!!! You are too young to fully understand what you can get yourself in to... be careful and good luck!

Answer 5

For crying out loud you are only 13. Yes its bad. Boys your age are only out there to get into your pants and they will say or do anything to do so. You are just a kid, so stay that way... no need to grow up so fast.
Not only do you need to worry about STD's, but pregnancy as well. Not to mention your self esteem and your reputation.
Find something better to do in your spare time, like hanging out with the girls.

Answer 6

If you sleep around at any age you are increasing the likliness of getting an STD. You're 13?? Girl you are way too young to be having sex. What's wrong with you?

Answer 7

first and foremost /STOP / doing that / RIGHT now /u will get stds /maybe HIV / which may turn to aids / where r yr parents / have they not talked to u / OK one guy u slept with /slept with 5 people /u sleep with 6 people with him / the 2nd guy sleeps with 5 people / u slept with 6 people with him / the 3rd guy sleeps with 5 people /u slept with 6 people with him /now add that all up / and what do u get / u have slept with 18 people / so far / it is a lot more but this an example /

Answer 8

Yes, its VERY bad to have sex 3 time at age 13. No, you will not get aids or std unless you had sex with one guy who has std or aids (which i doubt)

Answer 9

Honey, at thirteen you shouldn't be sleeping with anyone yet.
You could very deffinatly get an STI from sleeping with multipule people. Think about it. How many people has your partner slept with? And how many people have your partners pateners slept with, and so on.
Talk to a guidance counciler or an adult that you trust and learn more about STI's and their long term effects. You need to make sure you know all of the risks before you have sex so that when you do, you can protect yourself.

Answer 10

for your age yes thats bad stop befor you go get std or aids.