Just because we have each other on Myspace as friends and occasionally chat online.. he think it's a bad thing. Then he said, "I forbid u to talk to him anymore unless I'm there!" What is that about?
2007-06-05 19:45:26 · 15 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it does happen.............. I have countless friends who caught their girlfriends cheating them online
2007-06-06 04:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by bust15nutz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong for him to place an ultimatum on you, but on the other hand - if he has nothing to fear about your friendship, then you should call him on it and have a conversation with your friend in front of him. Then afterwards tell him how rediculous he is being and that he had best not ever ultimatum you again...or he will be short one girlfriend.
Sometimes, when someone is insecure and acts unreasonably, you do have to give a little bit to prove a point.
Now if you come up with an excuse why you can't or won't talk in front of him...then maybe he does have something to worry about and you are just trying to get away with it.
2007-06-06 02:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he just feels insecure and afraid. Guys are egoistic and most of time get much easily jealous than girls (No offence guys!). I mean, girls do feel something too if their guy starts chatting/talking closely with their best friends, right?
Try talking to him, assuring him that that his best friend is just a friend and he's the one you really love. Give him some time, he's just being overprotective. Do talk about it though, since it's making you uncomfortable.
2007-06-06 03:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be of two things.
1. He's a naturally jealous person or over-protective. If this behavior becomes violent, verbally or physically...GET OUT!
2. He could be cheating on you and just trying to throw off any suspicion.
2007-06-06 02:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ego and possession. Obviously there is 'status' in having a gf. My best friend and I have had similar experiences to Yours. Her Husband and My Wife 'forbade Us to see each other. So We gave Them an ultimatum, 'Get over it , or get Divorced". Do the same thing with Your bf. Tell Him to pull His head in, and to grow up, or else You will dump Him.
2007-06-06 02:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur bf is just jealous.. ur the girl who's bf is using ur pink toothbrush.. right??
i guess gurl.. he is just possessive.. jealous... and insecure.. scared to death that you will leave him,... he is under the state of insecurity and obsession.. so please give time to understand him.. make him feel that he matters to you the most.,.. nyay...
2007-06-06 02:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Pi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, thats just wrong.
It's natural for him to be protective of you, but when he starts putting restrictions on you, thats just plain stupid.
Talk to him and ask WHY he thinks you're cheating on him and that you're not!
2007-06-06 02:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you just leave him plz and stop asking questions over and over again? well plz all of these are about ur bf and if you should leave him well just do it already
2007-06-06 10:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by maaaar. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is afraid that you might cheat on him. sometimes that do happens. let him watch your convo with your guy friend to ease his suspion
2007-06-06 02:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's just really insecure.
2007-06-06 02:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋