How should i do it so i dont scare her?
2007-06-05 17:05:36 · 7 answers · asked by nygiantshock80 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be cool! Best way to do it is to just do it. The more you think the more your mind begins to race and you start to sweat and you start to freak out...do I smell...will she like me..what if this, what if that. How old are you? something makes me think you are young; you might have what 60 years left to live....clocks ticking and you can't waste minutes or days stressing ABOUT her when you could be have fun WITH her. Play it cool. Make sure you think about what to say before you open you mouth or you might look dumb...you might start babbling on. Make it short sweet and to the point. And remember that you have to be confident...women love that. Got all that? lol. Good luck. Let us know how it went!
I have to add: No notes, e-mails, texting, or that whole having a friend tell her for you stuff. Just walk up to her and say whats on your mind.
2007-06-05 17:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by sora1387 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, specifically, don't. Not for any other reason than just not to rush things. Life isn't always how it is in the movies (guy likes girl, guy tells girl, girl kisses guy, happily ever after). Why do you feel such a sense of urgency to tell her? Afraid she'll get a boyfriend before you have a chance to let her know how you feel?
However, if you're dead set on blabbing, do your best to not make it any kind of production. Try to just bring it up in casual conversation like it's not really a big deal to you or anything. There is a fine line between what a girl thinks is romantic and at what point she starts thinking you're a psycho.
Furthermore, I certainly hope you have a bit of proof that she shares your feelings. Unless you're willing to tough it out a bit longer and just see what happens.
2007-06-06 00:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by Carl M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no advice. Except, make sure you aren't sweating. That's just creepy to them.
I've been through that stuff tons of times. Last time I got my heart broken.
Good Luck!
2007-06-06 00:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by redreturns31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and don't go overboard so you don't scare her. Don't say too much or make it sound intimidating or too serious. Just be nice and give her a chance to say how she feels. Good luck.
2007-06-06 00:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it. And of course be honest don't hold back cause girls like it when a guy is honest with them.
2007-06-06 00:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look at her in her eyes and say "i like you" or write a note
2007-06-06 00:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more confidence in what you are saying and in yourself the better she will react
2007-06-06 02:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋