I've got a 13week old daughter and I'm trying to finish uni. Ive only got a couple subjects to go, but with looking after my baby it leaves me little time for study so Im always stressed about failing. I never get time to do household stuff so the place is a mess. My husband works long non-flexible hours in the military and does as much as he can when he gets home. My study is making us both more tired than we should be, but I'm nearly fininshed.... I'd like to quit, but it seems like such a waste because I've come so far...
2007-06-05 16:25:13 · 6 answers · asked by MJC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Try taking a semester off to get things in order. Don't give up, especially if you are so close. You don't want all that time to go to waste. It sounds like you are just burnned out on it and need a break to recover.
2007-06-05 16:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by al l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whilst the toddlers flow to college they are basically there for 7 hours approx. and the 7 month previous will take an prolonged time in the previous she/he's 5. i could carry on with it. I even have 3 little ones, dropped out and in no way went returned. i'm 29 now and that they are all at school and that i extremely discover adequate cleansing time because it is with an element-time interest! in case you have the daycare and each thing set up it seems such as you basically could desire to artwork on ideas-set. no longer attempting to be mean or something in any respect, basically desire you to succeed the place i did no longer. Is what you're analyzing no longer precisely what you desire to do? I in no way desire to apply my melancholy as an answer, basically because you have it does no longer mean you could no longer conquer subject concerns that ensue on your existence hun. people being friends, that quite shouldn't count, people come and flow out of your existence each and all of the time. carry on with an excellent function type for a pal and don't hardship approximately others. stable success hun!!!
2016-11-26 03:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by loberg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your feelings on this. I have a sister who's raising two daughters and going to college full time. She started college two weeks after her second daughter was born.
Please, if you only have a few more classes, just get through them and get your degree so that when you get ready to be in your chosen career path, you have the degree to back it up. That leads to you earning more money, and thus being able to take care of your family (financially) better.
Good luck, in whatever you choose to do.
2007-06-05 16:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by iriock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't quit. See if you can get some relief by bartering time with another mom. You watch her baby for a few hours and she watches yours. When your baby sleeps, you sleep. Simplify housework, meals and laundry to the bare minimum. Pick up everything as you go, and that will help reduce the mess.
2007-06-05 17:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good on you and your hubby for making it work, the sacrifices are worth it and congrats for seeking and pursuing education, your intentions are so good, so finish your studies please, its worth it, your husband and daughter will be so proud of you. Dont quit its too hard to go back.
2007-06-05 22:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay studying. hire a cleaner/nanny until you've finished your course. young cleaners and nanny do not ask for much money.
2007-06-05 16:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by chey_shizzle_shazza 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋