So he was such a jerk! I wont go into details about why.... But anyway he went away for a month and know he is coming back, but there are like 4 things that he has never seen me with, straight hair, pierced ears, make-up, pink highlights, and a certain type of outfit that he would never think to see me wear. I was going to do all of those things the day he comes back [he might not even reconize me!] so he can see what a jerk he was and to get back at him.... but I am wondering if I should do it.
2007-06-05 16:07:37 · 29 answers · asked by mrsxcaptxjack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
show off your new looks and if he wants to get back with you say no just to get him to beg and make him realize how wrong he was
2007-06-05 16:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by somebody 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think he would really care if you showed up in that kind of an outfit, pink highlights, straightened hair, and whatever else you were thinking of. If he really is such a jerk, he might even laugh. I mean, it really doesn't affect him in any bad ways, so how would that be revenge?
If you tried to get back at him, you'd be putting yourself at the same level he is. Plus, you'd be a jerk too, for trying to get back at him. What's past is past, so live in the present, don't be angry at things that have already happened.
But if you REALLY want to get back at him, there's a few ways you can spice things up....:)
1. Call him, pretend you're a hot girl and you want to meet him in a certain place, like a park. Then never show up.
2. Prank call him and pretend to be some girl at school who's supposedly really pretty/hot. Ask him out, (He will say yes, probably), then the next day at school watch him come up to her and say, "Hey". She'll have no idea whats going on, and he'll be totally embarassed.
3. When he's not looking, tape a sign to the back of his shirt saying, "Total loser" or something like that.
4. If you know where his house is, come at night with a few of your friends, and mess up his closet while he's sleeping (like taking out all his normal clothes and putting in bras and thongs and stuff like that).
HAVE FUN!
2007-06-05 16:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"but there are like 4 things that he has never seen me with, straight hair, pierced ears, make-up, pink highlights, and a certain type of outfit that he would never think to see me wear"
1. Straight Hair
2. Pierced Ears
3. Make-up
4. Pink Hi-lites
5. Certain outfit.
Just Sayin
2007-06-05 16:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is so much more to be said for someone retaining their dignity after a breakup than trying to get revenge. You're obviously still hurt by the fact of the breakup. You know what? He'll probably see you and see that you're trying to get attention and totally yawn and not mention anything. Then what will happen? You'll be hurt by the same person again. Silly you...and now with a punk rock set of looks to deal with...
2007-06-05 16:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by rlfesty 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would not even bother with it! Not to be mean, but if you are still angry enough to want to do things to get back at him, then he is not worth your time, nor is going through all that just to get back at him. Move on with your head held high. He will know that you are only acting out to get attention from him or a reaction and you don't want to give him that satisfaction either, right?
2007-06-05 16:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it make that jerk feel sorry for being such a jerk and regret that he left you.
2007-06-05 16:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by cisnerosjazmin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he's a jerk then why are you even thinking of getting him back, i mean i'm not trying to put you down but seriously jerks are always going to be jerks.
2007-06-05 16:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by The Girl You Love♥♥♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're only doing it to get back at him then no. If you actually like the outfit(hopefully it's not nasty, and skimpy) then sure why not? If you wanted pink then go ahead. But otherwise it would just be immature.
2007-06-05 16:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by Elysse O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really doubt doing that will make him feel like a jerk. Secondly, those four things might not make him mad.
More importantly, why spend time hating?
2007-06-05 16:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by leikevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. sit him down or email him and tell him that hes being a jerk or your not liking what hes become. he will most likely understand. and if he starts again give him a look to let him know
2007-06-05 16:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like you would be exerting way too much energy even thinking about him, the best way to get back at him is to get over him and move on with your life while he knocks up cashiers at walmart.
2007-06-05 16:11:26 · answer #11 · answered by J S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋