Is it right to have sex with an older man?

Question

I am dating a man who is 47. I'm 16. We had sex and thought it felt great. I am pregnant. We are getting married in 15 days. I will be 17 in 3 days. We will be married in Cuba where it is legal to marry when you are 17. He wants a younger body to have sex with, and I am fine with that. He is free to do anything with it he wants after we get married, ANYTHING!

Answer 1

Nice attempt at getting people riled up about this.... I think your sad attempt to do it though has people sitting back thinking what a flippin idiot.

Answer 2

I found this story to be a little hard to believe, so I looked at your profile. And I noticed you asked this question just yesterday:

"I am in 4th grade and I like this boy who know I like him but he does not like me. What do I do?
I am in 4th grade and I really like this boy named Kevin in the other class. He does not like me what should I do? He is so cute and everyone else has a boyfriend but me! "

I can't help but think you are making up stories. Why you are doing it I don't know.

BUT, on the small chance you are telling the truth, no, it is not right for you to be having sex with someone who is three times your age. When I was 16, I had a guy hit on me who was 45 years old, and it really freaked me out. Seriously, this is just wrong, and it is illegal. Don't get married to him.

Answer 3

HOL $HIT girl!! your 16 years old and this guy is almost 50. and thats more then 30 years older then you first off, so he pretty much has lived his life by the time you were born. another thing is he got you pregnant at 16 years old. and most importantly its kinda illegal since your a minor and he DEFFINATLY is over 18..its your life that your wasting not mine so do whatever the hell you want, but you should think about these things a lot more..i have more i would like to say to you but ill stop there..but if you just like him for sex well your gonna have to wait til after that baby of yours if born.....but i have to wonder how your parents feel about all of this

good luck with you life, hope you like what your getting into

Answer 4

I think your crazy. I met my ex husband when I was sixteen and he was thirty. I am now twenty three and I divorced him in 1999. I have two kids from this man but he had a record. (indecent liberties with a minor) The guy you had sex with could get in to trouble - It's called statutory rap. Your still a minor and this is wrong what he is doing to you. Don't marry him because you'll regret it when your my age. He is taking advantage of you.

Answer 5

16?? 47?? Is this for real??

I'm going to put this bluntly...you're crazy. What in the name of all that is holy are you thinking?

Since you are pregnant, you are considered an adult.

However, since you had sex with this man before you turned 18, that is illegal. He could (and should) be charged with statutory rape and contributing to the deliquency of a minor.

I don't know what is going on in that head of yours but you are living in a fantasy world. What happens when cold, hard reality strikes?

I hope you come to your senses.

Answer 6

Are you sure you know what you are doing?
I don't think you should go through with this just because he wants a younger woman.
You haven't said anything about love.
Where are you parents and what do they think of this?
I think you should talk to someone about this, other than your 47 year old older man.

Answer 7

no its not. he will weigh you down when he gets older. you wont be able to have fun then he will start to look ugly and wrinkly while ur barely 20! and he will not appeal to you. you will cheat on him because you want some one younger like around ur age. plus when he retires where will you get ur money from his pension?!?! please! you will be using the money for his health issues and ur children will be ashamed. dont throw ur life away. you already got pregnant. actually he is a pedifile ur underage. DONT MARRY HIM IT WILL BE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF UR LIFE. ALL PREDICTIONS I MAKE HAPPEN believe me all. ur marriage will not last long. and he might get introuble with the law. DONT MARRY HIM for all thats good and pure in the world dont marry him.

Answer 8

Where are your parents ?! You may not be the only woman in his life when you get to Cuba ! He may only want to get you over there for a sex slave, or prostitute. DON'T DO IT !What you did was wrong ! What you decide to do with the baby is up to you, not him.

Answer 9

STOP ANSWERING THIS IS A HOAX!
Here is a question from yesterday from "her"
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoLVfL5pBVp19dX3P8sU15Dsy6IX?qid=20070604155444AAqRICi


That is incredible, yesterday you were in the 4th grade with a crush on some guy! My how people grow up fast! BTW marriage at 17 is legal in almost every state, and being pregnant when you are 16 is rape in almost every state. Stop the bogus questions.

Answer 10

Oh honey. I don't even know what to say. I will hope for the best for you, but this man is evil. You deserve so much better. If he takes you to Cuba and you are a United States citizen, he is committing a felony, FYI...or should I say, he is committing ANOTHER felony. He has already committed the act of rape of a minor child. He could serve years for that.

I am SOOOO hoping that you are a troll just trying to get a rise out of people. Otherwise, it's too tragic to contemplate.

Answer 11

That is not OK. Number one, that is disgusting and there is something wrong with him. In my country, men who are almost 50 who date children are considered Pedophiles and are put in jail. You are a child and he is an adult. I think that you both need to seek help, especially him since he is old enough to be your father.