I AM 14 AND A GIRL.
2007-06-05 14:31:16 · 8 answers · asked by bravesoul134 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
When a girl is examined a dr can tell if she has been penetrated. This is also what signifies virginity. If a girl has not been penetrated she is still a virgin. (If she is not penetrated that does NOT mean she hasn't been sexually abused.) The dr will discuss with the girl the effects of having a sexual relations at such a young age and offer ways for you to stay protected. More than likely they will assume that it was waranted penetration by a boyfriend.
If you are saying that you are sexually abused you really need to tell someone. Even if its only your best friend. Something truly needs to be done. If you know someone who is being sexually abused you need to speak up. Tell a teacher or counselor or parent.
Good luck w/ everything. If you ever need to talk feel free to IM me or email me my info is in my profile on here.
2007-06-05 14:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im no doctor but i work in the health feild if you have a pap if you dont speak up they will know that you are sexually active its a good thing you are having a physical to take care of your self if you are being abused please tell someone you are 14 tell you mom even if you are scared just tell her please dont wait any longer tell her. no matter who it is doing this to you they are the bad person do not let them get away with this. that person is putting your life in danger. tell someone go to a church and tell some one that you need prayer when you are alone with that person tell them everything and they will give you advise and resources to turn to tell a trusted teacher anyone just tell someone a.s.a.p dont let this person hurt you anylonger please tell someone I will say a prayer for you tonight. if you tell your doctor the day of the physical they will help you too.
2007-06-05 14:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lovie dub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why won't be able to you in common terms tell her? she would be able to't study your ideas - telling her is the only way you are going to have the skill to enable her comprehend. If the abuser is interior the room with you and you'd be able to't say it, then tell a instructor or a chum's mom and father or somebody you have faith. the important element is....tell somebody!
2017-01-10 15:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a doctor can tell if you are sexually active, but the accusation of abuse has to come from you.
2007-06-05 14:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a doctor can tell if you are sexually active, and can tell if there is damage to your genitals. YOU need to tell the doctor if someone is abusing you. please do it. dont be afraid - you need to get out of the situation NOW.
2007-06-05 23:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please forgive the fact that I'm not a doctor, but I really,really want to encourage you to speak out if you are the victim of sexual abuse.
2007-06-05 14:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if thiers cuts scrapes bruises torn tissue down there scratches forced entry they can tell.
2007-06-05 18:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait- are you saying you are sexually abused?
2007-06-05 14:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋