I'm a horrible horrible person and have been for the last 6 months and will continue to be as i have screwed up my life, everyone has just been trying to help me and i have thrown it back in their face saying none of it is good enough, i say i hate my home town, i hate living back at home iwth my parents, i hate everything and i am a horrible horrible person, i have no idea how to get back to the girl i used to be and dont understand how people change like this? I'm 23 years old and i have nothing.......i'm so angry, i have had depression for 6 months seeeing adoctor taking meds,how do i get better?......
2007-06-05 13:28:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
realizing you have a problem is the first step. This may sound simple, but it is the only way you can help yourself. YES yourself. You must be come a person that others want to be around. Think of traits and actions of people you think is a quality that deserves friendship, love, acceptance whatever. Just know that you have to love and do for yourself before you can love and do for anyone else. Ask your relatives/friends personally what you do wrong AND how you can fix it. Don't victimize yourself. Make it about your own recovery.
2007-06-05 13:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by chica</3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well let me start by saying first that you are not a selfish or horrible person. Nobody is thouse things as far as im concerned. Part of being mentaly ill is not thinking straight as you normaly do at times so that means your actions and thoughts now are possibly not the best you have had or will have. And thats the hope. You will probably get better after the storm is over. Fight your depression anyway you can its always at least good enoth when you try. You are very young you probably have alot of life left in you that could bring hope for a better tomorrow.
You generaly get better by giving your docotor and meds time to work and being active in finding good treatments and meds for you. Recovery is a process that takes more then just getting help you have to take a part in it. And you are. Its ok to hate your town, parents, everything just realize this probably wont be the case forever. Where you always hateful? If not then the bright star called hope inside you is still burning and probably growing.
Also you get better by asking questions and making statements about thouse questions and your own thoughts. you are getting better I can tell as a person with a mental illness who has recovered to some degree myself I can see that easy.
2007-06-05 20:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by magpiesmn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone makes their mistakes. What counts is what you do after the mistakes are made. So say you think you're a horrible person - is this because you already feel depressed or because of circumstances? If there are things you did that you regret, make amends where you can. Appologize where you can't. Take the initiative to not make the same mistakes again.
2007-06-05 21:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by wonderer152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, you re not a horrible person. i have been going throug hdepression as well for 6 1/2 months. i hate my home town and can't stand my family. i am constanly bothering them and bickering with them. Just becuase you are really depressed and not happy with annthing doesn't make you horrible. you are like this becuase of your depression. depression changes people. once you get better, your life withh fall back into place.it is hard getting through each day, but each one counts and makes you one step closer to happiness and peace. god bless. feel better and good luck.
2007-06-05 20:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by * 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to begin by liking yourself first and formost. I see your on meds now, they will have to be adjusted as time goes on, most likey they might be changed until they find the write cocktail that works. Have you checked if they're any groups you can go too, they do help a lot, Of course a good therapist will do wonders. Maybe join some internet groups,
2007-06-05 20:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Becky D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie,...you are a sinner like the rest of us...I do things that I know don't make God and Jesus very happy, as much as I try...you sound to me, like you want to stop this behavior, and it is just a matter of time, before you can control this way of behaving...ask God and Jesus, to forgive you...and ask for strength, everyday...to stop it and soon, you will find a kinder personality developing..have faith my friend...you are no worse than anyone else..x
2007-06-05 20:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋