when does the hurt go away when yyour dad dies?

Answer 1

I don't think the hurt will ever go away. The older you get it will ease up, but it will always be there. You will always miss him and wish he was there. It's always tough losing a loved one especially a parent. I am so sorry for you loss.

Answer 2

Like most all have all ready said. The hurt never goes totally away. It has been about 10 years now sense my dad passed away from cancer. I still miss him a lot. And when certain things happen I miss him more and I feel that hurt again. But I also know that time has a way with helping us to deal with the loss of a loved one. If you are a christian. I say just keep praying and knowing that God has a purpose and reason for all this. And just keep loving your dad and remember all the great times you had with him. Its what he would want you to do.

Answer 3

It never really goes away. But, over time, it will diminish somewhat, and you will just get used to the idea that he is no longer around.
My dad died back in 1977. That was a pretty long time ago. I still miss him tremendously. I think about him daily, and I even swear I can feel his presence from time to time. Even now, certain songs I hear that remind me of him can bring a smile or a tear in a heartbeat. I take comfort in his memory, and in all the things I see in me, or in my little brother, that remind me of him. He does still live, if only in my heart. But he's there, just as large as life.

Answer 4

it never goes away. the only thing you can do is learn how to cope with it. its really hard i know i ha vent lost my dad but i lost my grandpa not to long ago and it still hurt we were really close and i miss doing so much with him. there will be alot of things that will remind you of him and that life things are always never fair. but just look at things this way your dad would have not want to see you waste your life and cry about him he wold want you to live it to the fullest like he did and then at the end of your time you guys came met up and be together again. just when it gets to hard to deal with talk to someone friends, family anyone that is there for you and you should be fine, sorry for your loss and i hope everything works out fine.

Answer 5

I'm really sorry, but I don't think it ever stops hurting when your dad passes away. Most of the time, I can look back and think of positive memories but sometimes a good cry helps as well. If you have someone close to you, it helps to talk to them about your feelings as well

Answer 6

My mom died 3 years ago her bedroom is extacly the way she left it. I bought her house the very next week after she passed away so that It would never change. The hurt will never go away you only learn how to cope with the lonely feeling that you have if you need support feel free to contact me I understand you pain

Answer 7

I don't think it ever goes away. I don't know from experience. but i don't think it will go away. You might get stronger and be able to live life, but the hurt i think will never go away.. I am sorry if you lost your dad <3 Keep your head up. Pray.. thats always helps. Love is love for your parents. It will always last. :)

Answer 8

It dosen't. Lost of a family member or even a close friend can be hurtful at first but it'll gradually diminshed. The hurt will never go away because it's your father. You can try moving on and doing things to keep your mind off of him, but it will always be with you.

Answer 9

It won't go away for a long time, especially if the two of you were close. My father 8 years ago, and it still hurts to this day. The main thing is to know the difference between regular mourning, and living your life crippled with grief. If you find that you can't function day to day, you need to get professional help.

Answer 10

Not sure I haven't lost my daddy yet but I do feel your pain I just recently lost a very close relative and I just keep telling myself it's OK to grieve and that healing comes with time. Sorry for your loss and I will include you in my prayers