if your baby father cheated on you, would u do the same to teach him a lesson.
and please dont tell me i cant do as a man and still be a lady!
2007-06-05 08:07:09 · 21 answers · asked by jb 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
"ashley w" we hav been together 3 yrs+ and we had a wonderfull relationship before this . we r still together but i am thinkin about revenge. and yes he loves me he wants to get married but i dont know about that
2007-06-05 09:33:52 · update #1
No. Two wrongs don't make a right, as they say.
I think you should talk to him. If you can't accept it than leave him. Maybe go to counselling. You should probably reconsider the relationship...or just start taking it slow.
2007-06-05 08:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs never make a right! You have a child to think about and what's best for him! How bad could you hurt him, if he cared about you he wouldn't have cheated in the first place! Doing anything out of revenge only ends up hurting you!
2007-06-05 15:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by wish I were 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea If My Baby Father Had Cheated On Me I Would Of Do The Same Thing Cheat On Him Let Him See It Feel To Be Cheat On.
2007-06-05 15:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by Miss LiL Princess 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I find your wording interesting..."baby's father"? Cuz if your not talking about your husband then I don't have much sympathy. If your talking about a husband then yes I would be tempted but would not do it because it would only make things worse and you have to think about the baby and the home life your giving to this child. Kidos come first!
HOWEVER...Repeat offenders are not eligible for parole in my book and Gods too!!!!!!
Hope you have a good day!
2007-06-05 15:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lakin J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not revenge, that is stupidity.
Having casual sex to "get revenge" will only cause more harm, not mention increase your risk of unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.
Cheating is one of the worst things people can do to each other. If your "baby's daddy" is unfaithful and you want "revenge", simply move on and find someone with better character. No need to stoop to his level.
2007-06-05 15:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by dm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, do not stoop to his level. What you need to be concerned about is raising your child around positive influences. If that means leaving your child's father, then so be it. You do not want your child to reflect immature behavior like this when they are older.
2007-06-05 16:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by bobkat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know if it would be considered cheating because it doesn't sound like you have much of a relationship.
2007-06-05 15:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on him. Be better than him. Show him that your above that. What's that going to do if you go cheat? You think that's going to make him love you more? Don't you think that's just going to tear you further apart. Work on repairing the relationship, not ruining it further.
2007-06-05 15:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by happyfacemommy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No he is not worth it. Forget him and leave. Once a cheat always a cheat.
2007-06-05 15:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a bad example to set for your kid, baby or not!! Sex as revenge sounds pretty immature to me.
2007-06-05 19:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Coffee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋