i always see guys always checking me out. i always meet the wrong guys like players and flirts. people always ask me how come i dont have a bf? some people assume that i already have a bf so i let them think that. but people dont know that im looking for that answer as well. iam not trying hard to find anybody because i believe that if its meant to be it will happen, i will meet the right guy but it feels like forever. but theirs nothing i can do about it. i just try not to think about it and enjoy my life.
2007-06-05 07:55:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're only twenty, don't worry about it. Some people think it's weird but lots of people don't date until they're ready (mentally, spiritually, etc.) to be married. You're fine. Good for you actually! Just focus on your own character and being the person you know you want to be... the right guy will be VERY attracted to you!
2007-06-05 07:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being 20 and not having a bf can be intimidating and cause self-esteem issues, but it seems you have a really good attitude about this. You're absolutely right on the mark when you say it will happen when it's supposed to. You will end up with the most outrageously wonderful man and you will be so happy you didn't settle just because of age or peer pressure. You go girl!!!
2007-06-05 15:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by gma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am about the same age and I have never had a boyfriend per say. I have dated but never got serious, more my decision than theirs. I think it is fine not to have had a bf yet. who cares, more time to figure out what you want in life without being controlled by a guy..... hmm maybe that way of thinking is why I am single, but whatev! =) single is way more fun anyway!! Live it up now cause when your married you will still look back on the single life with smiles.
2007-06-05 15:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kayla C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I'm in the same boat as you only I'm 26 years old. Guys can't believe I don't have a boyfriend. I'm happy being single but I would rather date the right guy. I don't want to waste my time dating anymore players. Life is too short for that mess. You're doing good by staying single. Your time on this earth is very precious and you shouldn't have to spend it playing games with these knucklehead men. I just go with the flow.
Live, love, laugh and learn!
2007-06-05 15:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. I am a very attractive guy, and seems like I can get nothing but hoocies, and dopers. Someone once told me, since I am so attractive that it can be intimidating to some women. Maybe that is the problem your having. Who knows?
Btw, I cannot believe all the losers who are macking on you in here. Leaving there email address's....what a bunch of little kids. Grow up....
2007-06-05 15:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by wisconsindeathtrip03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way. Guys won't go for you unless they are sure you will say yes. They want a "sure thing". You sound intimidating. You could flirt, giggle, or send out more signals. I'm choosing to change nothing and wait for a guy with balls. There is nothing wrong with you. You are real and not desperate in a city of cowards.
2007-06-05 14:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I swear we must wear the same size shoes, because that's my EXACT situation up and down, and same age and everything!..lol...I've been single for over a year....and like you, I'm focusing on making sure I handle my business and make myself the best ME that I'm capable of...When you're taking care of you, things tend to fall into place most of the time....at least, that's what I keep telling myself...lol
It really only bothers me when I think about it, but as long as I keep myself occupied, I don't too much notice the lonliness...lol
2007-06-05 15:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Prima_Donnassassin! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. I'm 21 and ask myself the same thing sometimes. But your young and you should just enjoy the moment and the time you have to be single and hang with your friends. cause that will change when you get involved
2007-06-05 15:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by K. Carlton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and it will come eventually... I f you rush things, you'll just end up with another player or flirt... It may take longer but it's worth it if you meet the right person... Just don't give up and wait....
2007-06-05 15:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by curious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may be misleading to some while trying to weed out the others... who knows give it time. It'll happen.
2007-06-05 15:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by avengress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋