ok, i lke this guy but hes gonna go to the school right next door to mine since hes is a grade higher. since summer is here the only way i have to talk to him is by email. But i really like him, and he'll probley wont ask me out cuz of the whole different school thing , like we wont no if the other one is cheatung...so on. he dated on of my use to be close friends and thought he was in love but when she broke up with him it was major drama and im one of his friends that helped him get through it . i dont no what to do cause i really think it will work but im not sure what he would think....HELP?!?!
2007-06-05 07:52:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a right to date anyone he wants to and so do you. You're teens! You're too young to be tied down to just one person. Date a variety of guys. But don't have sex with any of them. He may think of you as a friend only and not romantically. So don't think everything is up to you to "rescue" the friendship. It's not. Just understand that if he wants to see you, he'll phone you or contact you. But you can't phone him, can't text him or pursue him in any way. Let him take the lead and do the hot pursuit thingy. All you have to do is just get yourself a life. Get busy and fill up your life with things to do, places to go, etc. But, back off from him. That may not be what you want to be told, but you'll jeopardize the friendship if you try to take things into your own hands. That is for sure.
2007-06-05 08:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi danielle,
let tell you this, it doesn't get any easier when it comes to the opposite sex.
whether you 15 of 55.
if you helped him get through it. then he will hold you in his heart.
i promise you, you will not find the perfect guy at your age.
just go for it. you have nothing to lose. the fact that you have asked this question show you are pursuing options.
you must feel you have a chance or you wouldn't ask.
so just ask him out. boys find it very hard to show their feelings, i'm a 25 yearold boy. i don't show my feelings.
it's some macho defence mechanism we have.
so you will never know if you don't ask.
2007-06-05 16:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Talk to him, tell him how you feel about him, and see what he says.
2007-06-05 08:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by nicky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋