My girlfriend and I have a long history but we're together still. and we're very happy. but i get this gut feeling that she's hiding something from me. and i also found that every once-in-a-while she has little sms conversations with a guy friend of hers really late at night...like 130am. i even found that they talked on the phone one night for about a half hour after she left my house at around 130....but i don't have any solid evidence of cheating or even wanting to be with this dude...but i don't like that she talks to him late at night...but i also don't want to bring it up cuz technically i shouldn't even know about this stuff...i'm just a little wary and i don't know how i should handle this...
2007-06-05 07:33:27 · 7 answers · asked by kchavis83 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play dumb, and keep a close eye on her; that sh*t sounds sketchy
2007-06-05 07:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hiding stuff from her too, since you are hiding the fact that you know about this stuff.
Hey, look, don't you know that your woman checks up on you too, even when you think that she isn't? She checks your coat pocket for women's telephone numbers, and she checks your moble to see who you've been texting too.
Why not just be honest with her, and tell her what you know, and ask her if she likes this guy or not? Just don't be hostle or angry about it -- that makes things worse. You have a right to know. And if she gives you a hard time about spying one her, you can bet that she spies on you too, so don't let her make you feel guilty about it.
2007-06-05 07:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks dude. be up front and ask her if you should worry. watch her face to tell you the truth. her words might not be honest, but her expression will tell all. if your still worried then check the dude out and see if it's on the up and up. if it isn't move on. It's not worth the head ache
2007-06-05 07:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by michael c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dawg I learned the hard way to trust that gut feeling it will never steer u in the wrong direction
2007-06-05 07:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by yung_buk245 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone for now the truth always comes out in the rinse.or light whichever you prefer.
2007-06-05 07:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by kit kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes definetly boinkin this guy, i would leave her.
2007-06-05 07:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by norm k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...........um...................um...............ya youre just paranoid.
2007-06-05 07:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by cabanabanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋