Yesterday was me and my boyfriend's one month anniversary. I texted him & he texted me back, saying Happy Anniversary. But he never called me yesterday & I haven't heard anything from him today either. He has done this before.. he could go 2 days without talking to me, should I be worried, & mention something, or I'm I making a big deal out of nothing?
2007-06-05 07:28:19 · 23 answers · asked by latina ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's only a month.
2007-06-05 07:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by kazz06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating for 30 whole days and calling it an anniversary is making a big deal out of nothing.
2007-06-05 14:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You must understand a guy's mind. They usually don't keep up with or worry themselves over anniversaries, especially a one month, which seems very trivial. I could understand your concern if perhaps it was one or two years or decades..heh.
Relax, try to let go of the romanticized, Hollywood ideal relationship where the guy remembers what you were wearing when you first met...because that's not reality. The male brain just doesn't work that way.
2007-06-05 14:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by shortbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's a big deal; keep it up and he may get so bored with you that he just disappears completely. So, don't be surprised, if and when it happens. He's already began to take you for granted; not a good sign. You can phone and text your g/f all day long, if you want to......but not a guy. There's nothing you can do to "mend" the current relationship, but in the future, hon, don't phone a guy and don't text him.....if he is interested, he'll contact you. End of story.
2007-06-05 14:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anniversary, according to www.dictionary.com, means " the yearly recurrence of the date of a past event."
One month does not an anniversary make. I guess kids these days have to celebrate every single week/month because their relationships rarely last long, but come on. Give the boy a break.
2007-06-05 14:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably no big deal. It is normal for him to go acouple days with no call and a one month is not such a biggie to a guy. He texted happy anniversary...probably more than enough to him. I wouldn't stress over it.
2007-06-05 14:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have only been together for like a month now so ummm there isnt anything to worry about he is prolly just busy. i mean he cant dedicate 24 hours of his time towards you! He does have his own life to live. Dont worry not talking everyday isnt bad. see it as the next time you talk to him you have a lot more to say. Well take it easy!
2007-06-05 14:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by JK 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it..it's probably nothing...i mean I went all day Valentine's Day without talking to my boyfriend and found out he had to work..give him the benfit of the doubt ..i mean you've only been together a month
2007-06-05 14:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by Nestle Dip!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uum, no some people don't even care for one or two or three or any type of anniversary he may just be glad to be with you. another thing, a lot of people have lives outside of their relationship and don't wait to call their mate the first second they get, you may want to try to get something else to do and not think of him so much.
it isn't a bad thing not to talk to him everyday, perhaps its time for you to grow up a little more.
or find someone that is as obsessed with relationships as you are.
2007-06-05 14:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
1 month, no big deal especially if this isn't uncommon- now if you were married and this was your 1 yr anniversary, i'd say get used to it...
2007-06-05 14:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by carolyn h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you prabably are making big of a deal 1month in the relationship its not enought to judge it neither enough to say you realy love him be pation go slow and do rush into judgment yet
2007-06-05 14:32:13 · answer #11 · answered by A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋