I am very nice and friendly and I shake hands firmly, but not too firmly. How come girls never hit on me or ask me out, not even once?
I even tried leaving hints and being very suggestive but nobody took the hint even!
What am I doing wrong?!?
2007-06-05 07:27:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women practice dismissal, fear, and preoccupation. You need an opening line, small talk, and to close with getting her telephone number or a date. The number one dating advice for women is "play hard to get".
No one has ever seen the start of a relationship, and obese blobs, (that are 50% of the population), have immature hysteria that causes delirium in good looking women.
2007-06-09 02:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God. You're the guy, you are supposed to be pursuing the girls, bc that's what they expect. They are waiting for you to finally make a move. I'll map out a possible game plan for you.
Step one- confidence. If you don't have it, fake it.
Step two- talk to her. Smile confidently
-don't ever dog yourself. Don't complain. Some high school boys come off as kicked dogs who are unloved by the world and they hate it back. Avoid this.
-integrity, intelligence, and respect are key in the long run.
Most importantly, after you have established contact in this way, FLIPPIN GO FOR IT. You would be surprised how many gorgeous girls are lonely and often single just because there are no guys who will actually risk rejection. These girls often wonder what is wrong with them. I promise, if you ask out ten girls, at least half will say yes, unless you weigh 600 pounds or have three heads or if you are creepy. DON'T be creepy. Ever. Just ask her if she's seen any good movies lately and mention one that you want to see. She'll probably mention one she wants to see to, then ask her if you can take her/meet her there. I love a guy who is humble enough to get over themselves and risk a blow to the ego and go for what they want.
If she says no, say, "Worth a shot" and smile (with no teeth).
Stay away from her for about two-three weeks. If she talks to you, talk back, don't look sad. When you see her, smile at her. Give her space to miss you. Then try again. If you are rejected a second time, once she has had time to think about it, you are SOL man. Find another girl.
If you are accepted on the date either on the first or second time you ask, congratulations. The first date is the time to show the side of you that is interested in her. Ask her questions, prompt her to yak about herself, listen. Don't try for anything physical on the first date. Let her know you had a great time. Call her within the next two days.
2007-06-05 07:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God did not design relationships that girls hit on guys. It is suppose to be the other way around. Why don't you try asking a nice girl out for coffee or out on a date, instead of waiting for a girl to ask you out. You be the man and take the lead. What you are doing wrong??? You are doing NOTHING ----that is what you are doing wrong. Take the lead and be a man.
2007-06-05 07:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have no theory what you look like, or the way you're. yet to be ordinary, people can think of your unusual if your a different form of guy or woman. i be attentive to adult men and girls on the age of nineteen in many cases are not searching for a relationship. In college, training, females, adult men, events. Dates and relationships are in many cases the final concern to be regarded at whilst your that age. It sucks. yet its basically a bad time to be searching for some thing whilst some people your age do exactly no longer desire to be tied down
2016-11-26 01:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish last dude. Its life. But don't worry I am a nice guy and I waited and now I have a trophy wife.
My only other suggestion would be to make them your princess. Not in a creepy stalker type way, but make them happy and then they can come around to get to know you better.
2007-06-05 07:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Freako 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
janicajayne is right. Most girls think that guys should ask them out. You hit on them and ask them out, not vice versa although it might help to be friendly and not "suggestive"
2007-06-05 07:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the natural world... the male is the one who pursues the female.
Women like confident men. You can be a confident man and still be a "nice" guy.
2007-06-05 07:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to exude confidence. And not come on too strong. And smile and make eye contact. If the sparks are there then they are there. Don't force or come on too strong. Us girls see right thru it!
2007-06-05 07:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by giggly33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea.... Well stop shaking hands... what are you trying to sell a car? Dude, grow a pair and ask the girl out. Stop waiting for Jennifer Aniston to drop by your house and tell you she is hot for you. It ain't happening.....
2007-06-05 07:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most girls expect the boy to do the asking.
2007-06-05 07:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋