2007-06-05 07:19:49 · 17 answers · asked by court 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't. Either he likes you or he doesn't. Find a different guy to ask out.
2007-06-05 07:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to force him... That won't work and you will just end up frustrated and heart broke. Don't sell yourself short chasing some guy that isn't interested look for a nice guy!
Be one of those good girls and find a good guy and live the happily ever after... the "others" never seem happy, end up divorced etc.
Watch out though I have known enough guys who's goal was to get knotches on their bed posts etc and then the dump and run to the next girl that I would say that any woman that has sex before getting married (married after dating for atleast 15 months or more.) is selling herself short! The one jerk I knew in University would lie, cheat, anything just to be that "first time" with a girl and then he would dump her in a few weeks and start a new conquest. I had girlfriends (ex by then) coming to me asking why he wasn't returning calls etc. What a loser!
2007-06-05 14:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by Pilgrim in the land of the lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, its hard to get turned down.
Now as for "getting him to like you".
If you find a way to manipulate the male race like that more power to you...
You can't MAKE anyone do anything... but that's obviously not what you want to hear. Unfortunatlely its true. However although you can't MAKE anyone do anything you can HELP them do it.
First. Be pateint. Don't get all over him right after you asked him out. Give him a little bit of time.
Now what was your prior/current relationship with this guy?
Ask yourself the following questions:
Are you friends? Do you sit next to each other in History? Do you talk frequently? What were signs he he showed that provoked you to ask him? Did he show ANY signs? If there were, what might have provoked him to say no? Was he hesitant about moving foward? What?
Once you've asked yourself that and reached a better understanding try hanging out with him more. Start with groups and work your way down to one on one. Do your friends know about your crush? Pick one or two to help you out in this. Have any guy friends close to him? Ask them to figure out what's in his head.
Find out what he likes. What are his turn ons and offs? This is not to say morph into his "perfect girl" but more like, be concious of them.
Eventually, if he's really worth it for you he should come to his senses. Subtlety and friendships are key in this.
Good Luck!
2007-06-05 14:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by chile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already gotten off to a not so good start. Did you learn anything? You should have learned that you don't ask a guy out; you let HIM take the lead and ask you out. If he doesn't ask you out, then he is not interested, period. Always let him take the initiative to ask you out. He sees you and knows you are there, so let him alone and go on about your business. In fact, do get busy, get a life. Fill up your time with things to do, places to go, get involved in a variety of activities. You'll become much more appealing to him and to others.
2007-06-05 14:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get anybody to like you. You have somebody that like you, so you need to stop looking. You have all the time in the world and the right guy will come to you and ask you out. There is somebody for anybody.
2007-06-05 14:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Brandon S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE anyone like you. If he doesn't, he doesn't. It doesn't mean that he may not see you in a different light down the road, but if the you that you are now isn't good enough for him, then move on.
Don't go changing for anyone!
2007-06-05 14:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by DeAnna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well i think u should juz forget about dat boy but 1st ask him why he dont wanna go with you cauz if he got a girl then its alright but if he juz dont wanna talk 2 u juz because den forget about dat boy and find somebody else i kno its mad boyz u can get on wit.
but remember if somebody aint feelin you dey aint good enough for you anyway.
2007-06-05 14:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by sharra22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he turned you down, he doesn't like you. Move on to the next guy. Not worth your time and you don't want to look desperate.
2007-06-05 14:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone who doesn't want you? I never understood that!!?? There are about 10 guys to 1 girl, there's someone out there who DOES want you! Go find him.... and NEVER be in a hurry to grow up.. you are only young once ENJOY IT!!
2007-06-05 14:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by fade4pink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone like you romantically. I know it's not easy, but look to find another guy that's interested in you.
2007-06-05 14:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋