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Question

do you feel bad if a girl asks you out and you say no?
and if you like a girl are you sometimes afraid to ask her out cause she might say no?
and do you think its stupid if a girl likes a guy and never asks you out?

Answer 1

Yes i feel bad if i say no but usually i say no for the right reason

and i get afraid somtimes but that is with the really fit ones

no not at all she might have a reason to not ask him out

thanks for the question

Answer 2

Well miss instead of just saying yes ill explain all these to you. Just so you know im not a jerk I am a true niceguy, but I know the jerks would say that they are nice to, but anyway if a girl asked me out I dont know waht I would do. If she seemed like an interesting person then I would see no problem, but if I felt like we had nothing in common or if she presented herself the wrong way then I would simply say no and explain to her why so she wouldnt be so heart broken. For the 2nd question I am terrified to ask any women out simply, because I am terrified and don't handle rejection well at all. Last time I was rejected I was at a dance and I asked this gal that i knew to dance and she said later, but then the dance was over I went home sat on the couch and stayed up until 7am. I then didn't eat for 3 days. So I really don't take that chance anymore. For your 3rd question I dont quite understand if she likes you and dont ask you out or likes some other guy and dont ask you out. Either way I dont think its stupid at all women are just afraid of making the first move as men are. They are afraid that we might not be interested in them, or that their not pretty enough, or that we might say no. But the whole thing is we have to risk it there will always be rejection in life, and their will always be sadness and sorrow in our lives we just have to move on. I can't risk being hurt. I am very terrified when I wake up in the morning, and I picture myself dying alone, and nobody caring that im gone. I would rather be alone than get hurt all the time. Its pain that I can't handle from a broken heart. Well miss I really hope this helps and GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 3

Totally, you are crushing thier dreams, but it is the best interest for both people. A guy might like someone else, and you don't want to crush his dreams either, also don't girls want honesty? So isn't it right if a guy just tells the truth instead of lying? If it comes up later in the relationship, than the girl will just be more crushed. Always tell the truth.

I'm not afraid of them saying no, its more of the whole image issue. If they know you like them and they don't like you, then they tell everyone and their sister about you, and pretty soon you have all sorts of rumors going around about you. Its the image.

No, She is just choosing not to open a door in her life. She may find someone that will sweep her off her feet later in life, just because she didn't ask that one guy out.

Answer 4

Lots of times I will feel bad if a girl asks me out and I say no, this would very likely be because of the age difference between her and I. For example, I was once asked out by a girl that worked at a drug store near where I used to live. I had to turn her down as she was just 16 years of age, and I was 24 years of age at the time.

Answer 5

Somewhat yes, but that's the risk everyone takes when they ask someone out.

I don't think she's stupid for not asking but if you want something and you don't say it you can only blame yourself. So it would be a little stupid to complain that someone isn't asking you out.

Answer 6

1. kinda depends on the person ie do you know them well
2. yes that kind of makes you second guess yourself
3. for the most part...but if you don't know them are you just baseing it on looks?
gone through #1
going through #2
hoping #3 never happens i kind of like to know who you appeal to

Answer 7

i do feel bad if i say no, and i am terrified to ask a girl out, i think it is stupid but i do it to so....

Answer 8

It is tough on both ends. But, I bet guys take it tougher than girls. I have had my share of rejections. It is tough. BUt, I have said 'no' as well...and got a similar reaction.

Answer 9

Yes,

Yes,
and

Yes.

Answer 10

1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Yes