Well i told a girl i liked her but she said she didnt liked me(i told her by sms) and since that day we havent talked anymore
I would like to talk to her again but i cant just do it, i feel so ashame and i dont know how she would react.
Because of this and because i really want to talk to her i think im getting really obcessed with her and start being jealous when someone flirts a bit with her
What should i do ?
2007-06-05 05:10:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a rehost, just seeing different oppinions
2007-06-05 05:10:36 · update #1
This is a rehost, just seeing different oppinions
2007-06-05 05:10:37 · update #2
It's tacky to tell a girl you like her by text, and likely she's going to be even further turned off if you keep hounding her. Give her space, if she has any interest, she'll find a way to talk to you.
Next time, ask her in person.
2007-06-05 05:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by rastabeenz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend has the same problem and were around your age too. I would back off to see if she notices and after a few days or so, if she doesnt notice, be on her again. Maybe tell her your true feelings to get it done with, ask her out and see what happens. If she says no just be friends, even though you still like her, it's better to still have her in some way than not having her at all right? I feel bead for you, i would not know what to do either, just do what you think is the best think to do! =]
2016-05-17 08:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ,man you should move on .yes i know you've got feelings and it's not easy but just think about it .life is too short for you to waste your time wondering if someone loves u or not .and the being jealous issue .come on she told you she doesn't want you .and the fact that you're not talking ever since is the answer she is not that into you .there is a saying in business that is "when there is no answer that's the answer "so move on and move up there is so much pretty special girl out there waiting for you .i know that when you're gonna read this you will hate me .but with time you'll realize i was right
2007-06-05 05:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by ryuken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, good thing you told her how you feel. Who cares if she now knows you're not gay and you like pretty girls(her being one of those beauities.)
2nd, move on to somone else. It won't be easy at first. She isn't interested. You have to let it go.
3rd you never know how lucky you could by not hooking up with her. Some people are just nuts and you may ave avoided a coming disaster of a person.
2007-06-05 05:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Michael M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax...maybe the girl would feel controlled if you dont let her flirt with other people. Let go a bit..you don't want her to feel like you are obsessed. Maybe you guys could just become friends and let her know about your feelings after you told her you liked her..dont feel ashamed if you really want her that bad..
2007-06-05 05:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by clueless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell u to talk to her once again, ask her if she still wants to be your friend if she says no then i guess theres nothing for u really to do, than to just get over her and move on with someone else, and i know its hard to just give on the one girl u really like but that's the way she wants it and you got to accept her wishes!
2007-06-05 05:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by LIL MISS VIXION 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax... breath... if she doesn't like you it's for the best that you don't do anything, find someone who likes you for you, never settle... if you know you are a good person then go find someone who cares about you dont let girls get youdown dont let this get to you, there could be a better girl out there waiting for you.. just keep an open mind
2007-06-05 05:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by vampire_queen_86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone for a bit and then if she on line just say hello and maybe she will talk back to u. not a lot else u can do really.
ANNIE
2007-06-05 05:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by ANNIE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because she doesn't "like" you in that way, it doesn't mean you can never talk to each other. But, if you are thinking that a relationship may develop, my advice is to stay away. Since she made it clear that she doesn't like you in that way, you could be opening yourself up to a "Stalker" reputation.
2007-06-05 05:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Brad K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get a life and leave this girl alone. If you get a life maybe she might want to be in yours!
2007-06-05 05:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by giggly33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋