my son yells at me very violent and dont like discipline he threatens to call the police on me if i do discipline him and he puts marks on himself
2007-06-05 04:02:56 · 11 answers · asked by foxy lady 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
If your son yells at you, and you discipline him, you are doing the right thing. By him saying he wants to call the police, he is threatening you to stop so he can get his way. Do not let this threat scare you or make you feel like a bad mother in any way in any shapr or form. By him calling the police is more threatening himself. If he did call the police, the police would come to your house, and he would over-dramatize something that happened. By him putting these marks on himself may make it worse, maybe by looking like you did it, but you know you didn't.
Do you have any other kids in the house that could tell the police you didn't do it? If your son told the police you made those markings on him, tell them your willing to go down to the police station for questioning. When they find out you didnt do it, in the future your son will have no threat against you.
I also suggest going to see a phsychologist. Your son may be suffering from an illness, or may simply be having some problems at school that he takes out his anger at home. Tell his school guidance counselor. This information should help you. I am 14 also, so I know some of the problems at school that may be making him act this way. Hope I have helped you. Have a wonderful day!
2007-06-05 04:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by sugarsweeti13 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
When he threatens to call the police, pick up the phone and dial it for him. Do not stand down!! You lost control and you must get it back. Sounds like you have made a lot of threats without carrying through. If he marks himself by scratching, then he is trying to punish himself because you won't. Does he have a good male role model? I would get him and you into family and individual therapy. Never give up on him, that makes it seem you don't care about him or love him and he'll get worse because he will feel rejected. These young teenagers can be so unreasonable, but it's not wholly their fault. If he had strong parental guidance his whole life this might not be happening. Their emotions are so strong and they don't know how to handle them. Therapy would be best for him to learn to settle down and for you to learn to parent him.
2007-06-05 04:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by gma 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Spank him! Just pop him. Or slap him across the face. If he calls anyone on you, you just tell the officer that comes that he was being violent and you were acting in self-defense.
If he is still violent with you, talk to the school counselor about what you can do with him.
Really, all these kids that are like your son just need a good slap in the face to rearrange those messed-up heads of theirs.
2007-06-05 04:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by its_victoria08 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Therapy, and threaten to turn him to the police. Also, if he says he doesnt want to live with you, just tell him he can live in a foster home. You'll send the papers right away ;-)... it works pretty well.
2007-06-05 04:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by da dude person 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Send him to my house for a while.....he will come back behaving like an angel I promise... If not then our governments institutionalized prison system works very well. That is important for you to note because if you dont change your way of behaving that is where he is going.
2007-06-05 05:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by coolhandven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a fool because there is no way in the world a child of mine would talk to me like that. I would whoop his butt until he learns some respect.
2007-06-05 04:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by joyce 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Therapy, and quickly! What a turd! Nip that in the bud. 14 is not to old to spank.
2007-06-05 04:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by Renny 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, you should have started tare'in his hind end up earlier in childhood.
2007-06-05 04:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Carolinablues 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to kick that little boys ***.
2007-06-05 04:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by marie j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what Joyce said
2007-06-05 04:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by karma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋