2007-06-05 01:19:07 · 31 answers · asked by stelee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uhh. thz always hard.. well u should let her know he is sayin tht first.. and figure out ur feelings towards him.. but i advice to turn him down no matter how u feel about him because if he can do it once (to ur friend) then it wont hurt him to do it again (to u).. and itz always REALLY hard to see ur best friend go out with ur ex......It makes me think twice before i call them my best friend... it really ruins the friendship... specially if she still has feelins for him
2007-06-05 01:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by blondie_witha_brain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to care very much about your best friend after all you probably have known her for a very long time. I'm sure that you will do the right thing for your self as well as the two of them.
Maybe tell him that as long as he is with her there is no way that you can ever be with him. And even if he stops seeing her that you don't know that you could do that to her, since she is you best friend and you don't want to hurt her.
I have no doubt that you will do what is right and best for all concerned, you seem like a very smart person.
God bless, take care.
2007-06-05 08:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first and foremost concern is your best friend. I would tell the boyfriend he needs to back off and he needs to be honest with your best friend, or else YOU will be honest with your best friend for him. Under NO circumstances do you get involved with this guy. Remember, our best friends are there for us when all other relationships fail. Do not let him spoil your friendship.
2007-06-05 08:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you know what to do. Unless you don't value the relationship between you and your girlfriend I would tell her what he is up to. He is a low down dirty rat, and if you are not careful he will tell people that you were the one coming on to him. Don't you see that he only wants to take off your pants and will eventually do to you what he is doing to your girlfriend.Tell him to go take a long walk on a short pier.
2007-06-05 08:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to **** off and then tell your best friend that it's time for a new boyfriend. Seriously, who has time to do with jerks like that!
2007-06-05 08:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still with her and he's saying things like this to you - do you really want to be with a man who would do that? If she's really your friend you would tell him to back off and that if he really doesn't love her then he shouldn't be with her.
2007-06-05 08:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him?
If you do, please snap out of it. If he is treating your friend badly, he will do the same to you.
It also could hurt your friendship. If you go out with this guy after he dumps her, she will be hurt. No guy is worth hurting your best friend. Or any friend.
A good guy will treat you and your friends with respect.
2007-06-05 08:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do nothing. Wait for them to break up. Then do nothing again. You don't want to be stuck with this unfaithful moron. He'll treat you the same way when another girl comes along.
2007-06-05 08:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much do u love him (in a scale of 1-10)
ho much do u like uor frind in a scale of (1-10)
its wrong to date uor bestfrinds boyfrind
if u truly her frind u wouldnt even think about hurting her feelings
2007-06-05 08:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by ice_cold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run the other way. Tell your friend she is dating a loser. If you guys are 'best friends' she will appreciate your honesty and dump him. good luck
2007-06-05 08:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ms B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋