a female friend of mine wanted to experience kissing girls, so one night i was at her place and we were talking about this, and i offered to help her. so anyway we made out and things just got pretty heated, but we didnt do it. i stopped it because i have a boyfriend.
anyway we are the kind of couple who like to experiment etc, and hes always had this thing for us to have a threesome with anotha woman. so i told him about what had happened, and he was ok with it because he knows i love him, with my friend it was just fooling around.
i asked him, that if hes still interested in the threesome, my friend really wants to be there too. but now hes worrying that i might prefer being with her than him. even though i enjoyed being with her, and i enjoy being with him. i know i love my bf, and its just an attraction with my friend. so what do i do now, because we're meant to get together this weekend.
2007-05-29 22:44:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a lot of problems with threesomes. It is very easy for someone to get jealous, and therein create tension in the relationship. The concerns he brings up are valid points, and often are the creation of said tension. It is also a fact that men may become overwhelmed at the experience and not perform “up to standards.” This is something to keep in mind. If you choose to go forward with it, you must also be prepared to lose the relationship. On the positive side, it could be a good experience for the both of you, and help to liven the relationship. If he is questioning it, he may not want to do it. Leaving it as is, I would not go through with it. If any doubts are still in your head, talk to him again. Make sure he understands you have concerns as well, and if he decides he doesn’t want to go through with it, he doesn’t have to. No pressure.
2007-05-29 23:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Big Daddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Threesomes can equal very, very bad consequences.
Well, do your boyfriend and your other friend know each other? If I were a guy, doing it with the woman I love, and a friend of hers I've never met would be a little weird.
So long as your friend is willing, reassure your boyfriend, and tell him how much you love him. Still, strap yourself in tight. The shockwaves from this bang could do quite a bit of damage.
2007-05-29 22:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by Enigmatarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS "IT RUNS IN THE FAMILY" it is a sexually transmitted infection. The only way she could have been born with it is by her mother having it when she had her, and still the warts would be in her THROAT and NOT her genitals. She is lying or gravely misinformed and misinforming other people. Breast cancer and cervical cancer are not the same. MOST cervical cancer is caused by HPV. Breast cancer has absolutely NOTHING to do with HPV. The contagious factor is risky, if she has had it - theres still a chance of you getting it bc the virus is in your body forever even after treatment. The low risk type causes warts, the high risk types have no symtoms except for abnormal pap smears-which if left untreated with turn into cervical cancer. Feel blessed that you were warned and RUN. I know i would have. PS BE UNREASONABLY PICKY - ITS WORTH IT
2016-04-01 04:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should go for this threesome thing because either way one of them is gonna get hurt!Your boyfriend might get a little jealous later on and you could even lose a friend .
2007-05-29 22:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by babycakes_cute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd be more concerned about him preferring her over you. Something new and different, y'know. That happens a lot after threesomes.
2007-05-29 22:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by Alice K 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I Think u guys are going to mess it all up and at the end u all will lose ur friends, girlfriends and boyfriends. (Though it don't know who is who)
2007-05-29 22:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sky Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reassure him... tell him to stop acting like a big baby.. he has suggested it, and now it is going to happen... if you need a substitute, there are plenty of guys willing to help you out... :D
2007-05-29 22:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What the hell ever happened to dinner and a movie????
2007-05-29 23:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it !!! y not ??
its just a fase ull get over it .. its a win win thing ..
if ya lov him that dont just diapper over 1 nite !! yano
2007-05-29 22:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by fatninjabitz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He forgives you but dont push it...
2007-05-29 22:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋