I've been dating a guy for a little over a year and I'm beginning to think that we may not be compatible in terms of spending time together. I get mad all the time because he seems to be okay with us seeing eachother only 2-4 times a month! (I've only told him once because I don't want to seem needy and if he wants to spend time with me I think he would make more of an effort)
I'm 20 and he's 24. He's in medical school and has had some pretty rough rotations and I've understood that he needed to study But now he is on an easier rotation but he still doesn't see me very often. it's making me resentful towards him... do I need to just get a life or is it like we have a long distance relationship when we really only live about an hour away by subway.
(p.s. everytime we spend time together it's always me going to visit him!! it's so discouraging)
2007-05-29 21:21:37 · 7 answers · asked by brown eyed girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, you watch "Grey's Anatomy" more than you see this guy! He won't even waste his gas money on you because its all going to his school or that would mean time away from his books! Oh well, it's looks like you are going to be stuck in the waiting room for a very long time with this guy if that's what you want! =<)
2007-05-29 21:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Grandmaster Adler von Chase 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be a hypocrite, but i think seeing each other once a week/once a fortnight is perfectly acceptable. Any more often than that does strike me as being a bit needy. Go out woth oyur friends - organise a really good night out or something. Yes, I'm telling you to get a life, but I think you already know that yourself and at least I'm trying to do it in a nice way.
2007-05-30 04:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by LT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an hour is far to go more than once a week, especially if you're involved in something like med school. it'd be nice to stay with a doctor but the old cliche is that they're always busy. if you can't handle it now, do you want to spend a life like that?
2007-05-30 04:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life
2007-05-30 04:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely understand how that would be discouraging.
When you feel like maybe the relationship tilts in anothers favour, and its not working for you....speak up.....listen up....make some decisions.
Good luck there Brown eyed girl.
2007-05-30 04:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by featherweight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play hard to get for a while, and just pretend that your not interested in him. look for other things to do with your free time, blow him off for a while. and if that doesnt work then i would dump him, and find someone who was more like me.
2007-05-30 04:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm..time to move on!
2007-05-30 04:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋