We both work at the same store. He's really shy so he didn't approach me and introduce himself. I'm shy too. Few months later at work, luckily we were in a situation where we had to talk and introduce ourselves. From then on, we would chat whenever we had the chance which wasn't that often. A month later, I told him that he was cute and he said the same thing to me. The next day, the first thing he said was that he forgot to ask me for my number and that he'll get it later. He did get it later when I walked by him while I was on my way out of work to go home and he was on his way into the store to clock out. After he got my number he called my cell phone immediately after so that I would have his number too. Then he said thanks, that he got it and that he'll see me later, bye, or something. I just know that he did not say "I'll call you." He didn't even want me to wait for him so we could walk out of the store together and talk. It's been 4 days, he hasn't called. Is he shy or wut
2007-05-29 20:31:42 · 15 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Other employees at work all say that he's pretty quiet and that all he says is what's up, no conversations. He says that he's shy too just like me, but why would he ask me for my number when he wasn't going to call? And why would he tell me that he thinks I'm cute too when he didn't want to go out with me? He didn't have to ask me for number, I would've been fine with it. Is he leading me on?
2007-05-29 20:34:32 · update #1
i'd say go with the flow. don't ponder over it too much. he's probably finding it really hard (being shy and all) to approach you. he probably doesn't know how to, or what to say etc. just take it easy. the ball's in his court. meanwhile whenever you pass by him, make sure you're pleasant and friendly. if he gets the slightest impression that you're confused or annoyed he might back out completely. if you see there's no progress after a few days/weeks...then move on. you have nothing to lose.
2007-05-29 20:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by sunset_n_moonrise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read the book "he's just not that in to you" cover to cover a year ago. Even though I laughed my tush off at it, it is really true. No man will "forget" to get your number if he wants it. Shy means he may turn red when trying to ask you out initially or not very open at first. Since you already told him you thought he was cute, he has no rejection fear to use as an excuse. So, since you helped him out in those areas and he has your number already but still has not called - he was either abducted by a large group of Eskimos to go whaling for the summer near the north pole or, HE IS JUST NOT THAT IN TO YOU. And honey, you are too hot to wait him.. there are plenty of men who will adore you, call you, and not be able to wait to take you out! So move on girl!
2007-05-29 20:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by hottblondcop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes with a shy guy you may have to step up, go ahead and call him. There is a reason he gave you his number too and told you he was shy. Give him a chance at least. you never know what you will find. Make the first move and maybe the second but if doesnt step up and take the lead then ditch him.
2007-05-29 20:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To quote a certain book author...
He's just not that into you.
In most cases, if the guy is really interested, he will make the moves. Unless this guy is a social pariah, he has the power to call or not call.
The next time you see him, talk some more, and maybe suggest that you go out sometime. If he's interested, he'll be into it, if he mumbles about being busy, he's not. Other than that, just let it go. Find someone who's so crazy about you that they can't wait to ask you out.
2007-05-29 20:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by esobel6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
supply him a wreck he's not a strategies reader. He desires to impact you yet does not comprehend how. in case you do no longer' have persistence you will finally end up with somebody who does not supply a flying fud what you think of. If he did comprehend the place to take you. could you no longer ask your self who else he took to an identical spot he took you? he's a special and a keeper. you should locate worse motives to no longer supply him of venture? end making excuses to no longer be with a solid guy. We oftentimes write approximately undesirable men; cheaters, beaters. he's not one of the above. solid success
2016-11-23 17:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have his number,call him.And next time you two work together,make an excuse for him to wait for you.I dont know if he has his own car or gets a ride with someone so he might not be able to wait.But he wouldnt have given you his # if he didnt want to talk to you.
2007-05-29 20:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by john s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't call, don't worry about it. It is still early enough to find out if this guy is a jerk. But if he was really into you he would have called by now. But then again, something may have happened. Have you seen him at work?
2007-05-29 20:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by gatlic1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are just so dumb sometimes. He will probably call. They think that they are acting too desperate if they call too soon. Don't sit around waiting. Just act as if nothing happened.
2007-05-29 20:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he must have an extreme case of shyness. Sometimes if you truly like him you must satisfy yourself and take control. Why don't you be the aggressor and talk to him or wait and walk with him to the car , etc.
2007-05-29 20:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by why_cant_i_be_me69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nod dudes are just confusing. give it time momma and if you are feeling him and know off top both of you are shy then don't be afraid to go after what you want.. Live like there is no tomorrow! (It's not promised anyways)
2007-05-29 20:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by nevaehhoop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋