what should i do , she is killing me and i cant take it anymore. what do i do?
2007-05-29 20:27:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her out like man. U have nothing to lose. I have same problem but i decided to be friend with her. I'm not even sure if she likes me back? i just say f*** it watever happens, happens.
2007-05-29 20:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say "I can't live without this girl I love". While this may make a GREAT love song, in reality, this type of nonsense is a BIG turnoff for women. You haven't even had a date with her, how can you say that you love her??? Most women don't like it when guys reveal their feelings too early. If you don't believe me, just tell her "I've loved you for a really long time and can't live without you." See if that gets you a date.
If you truly want to be with this girl, you're going to have to change your attitude. You are putting this woman on a pedestal, which is a big mistake. Even if you did succeed in "asking her out", and she goes on a date with you, you are going to be her doormat until she finds someone else.
You end your question saying that you "have no chance". Right there, you are talking yourself into defeat. Women like men with confidence, and until you convince yourself that you have a lot to offer any woman, you really don't have a chance with her.
2007-05-29 21:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun, ask her out, all she can say is yes, or no. What if she says yes, then you can start making plans for the date. Be sure to ask early in the week for a special Friday or Saturday night date. Not a spur of the moment thingy or not a last-minute invitation. She may have a busy calendar. And you wouldn't want to get turned down just because you waited too long to ask her out and she'd already made other plans.
2007-05-29 20:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like this is the first person you've ever fancied and usually the first never works out so just ask her I mean the worst that can happen is she says no and as long as you don't get to obsessive nothing will go wrong beside you get use to being rejected after a while I was once like you too.
2007-05-29 20:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are going to sit there like a bump on a log and say I am too afraid to ask her out, then all I can tell you is you deserve all the pain you are causing yourself, What is the worst that could happen....ask her out and she says NO...then what have you lost? Nothing really because you never had her in the first place....
2007-05-29 20:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face your fear.
I have been in the same position many times before and my fear was all over me and I didnt do anything. I regret those decisions now that I found out that she liked me too.
Its better to try and be turned down than be a wussy who didnt do anything. Face your fears, be a man.
AND PLEASE.. dont tell us that you cant live without her. You grew up without her and you can continue without her. You're just saying that just because you're in love.
Trust me, everything that is suppose to happen will happen... if it doesnt then it shouldnt. You feel me? Just go with the flow and enjoy the ride. Dont be too serious, give her hints but dont confess your feelings. Girls likes challenges. Keep her guessing and be unpredictable.
If she turns your down, dont feel bad.. its her lost.
SHE's one in a million, I know.. but there are 6 billion people on earth.. so there are more girls just like her and better.
2007-05-29 20:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by rhkenji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 03:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not what you want to hear but you must "grow up". You can live without anybody...regardless to who they are. You just have to let go. If you continue to obsess over her you will become weaker and weaker as a person. Life has much to offer...get on with it!
2007-05-29 20:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not even dating yet and you think you can't live without her, I'd say you have bigger issues at hand brother.
Try avoiding this person completely for a few months before this obsession becomes stronger.
2007-05-29 20:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by HaLF_BaKeD123 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, if you really say you love her, you will tell her how you feel. You owe it to yourself and her to get this out.
Love is mutual. It shouldn't be a one-way track, or else one of the two people is hurting.
2007-05-29 20:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋