my bf and me are both 23 yrs old and have been 2gether for 2 years and its become a reguarity 2 have sex almost every night. but lately i fell like i havent been able 2 give him what he wants. i kinda feel like he wants more, and i just dont know wat else 2 do. the rest of our relationship is going really well.
any hints on how i can steam it up?
p.s. i really dont want to confront him about it becausr i think it might make things worse.
2007-05-29 20:13:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try blindfolds, handcuffs, dressing up....etc.
Suprise him with it though. It might spice things up.
2007-05-29 20:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by Abby C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erika,you have a common problem. Whether it's sex or something else, many people are afraid that if they confront their partner it will cause a blow-up. Consider this...if no confrontation and the situaation (whatever it may be) continues, nobody will enjoy it. Problems that are not addressed do not disappear. So address the problem. How long do you anticipate the relationship will continue? If you want it to continue, then make sure it continues with both of you knowing what's happening with the other. So ask him and tell him you need to know. If this upsets himi, better to find out where his buttons are right now.
2007-05-29 20:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing better than good understanding. You must always be able to speak your mind without intimidation. Talk with him. If people are honest with each other they can save themselves a lot of stress. Even if the results is not what you hoped for, you can still gain knowledge that can be beneficial.If you cannot talk together you will eventually drift apart regardless to how much...or good the sex is.
2007-05-29 20:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you kind of feel you want more too? I think you do. Explore your own sexuality and tap into your passion for those things. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him what you want. He may then open up without you having to confront him. Install 30 minute good night kisses and put the Led Zep song "You Shook Me" on repeat for about an hour.
2007-05-29 20:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 04:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by bugayong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Robin Williams comedy "Man Of The Year" made a joke about "same sex marriage"" if you are married, you have the same sex. If you do it every night, you aren't going to be able to keep it interesting. He/She either wants you, or not: new positions aren't going to make a difference, so relax.
2007-05-29 20:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Eddie Sea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh yes I remember those days of sex 2 times a night ! Ummm I just suggest you ask him if he wants to do somthing kinky with you somthing he always dreamed of but never tried . He will go wild !
2007-05-29 20:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by wishingstar5555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress up
be aggressive
wear a nighty......push him on the bed and be aggressive
2007-05-29 20:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uniform girls alwaysgive me an erection
2007-05-29 20:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by john a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give em a plow job!~!~!(a good one @ that)
2007-05-29 20:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋