Why or why not?
2007-05-29 17:02:04 · 13 answers · asked by Rikki 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
yes, because I have children..
until you do...
you will probably never understand unconditional love
You LOVE them...period
2007-05-29 17:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by pinkstealth 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depend to what you call as "love";
My children said I dont love them when I am angry to them or disagree with them.
What happened some times because I was just simply thought they were wrong or not the same like what i would like to do. That of course can not say unconditionally loves. I dont know what the other parents say that they are unconditionally love their children means. I love my kids , if they fight me as they usually do when they start getting older and in "love" , I hate it, still like them to come back to me tho.
Unconditional love from God; as long as you believe it, and with all God's decision you accept it as His Love unconditionally, then you believe in an unconditional love .
Many people they say that they believe in God but when they have problems like accident , desease, illness, fired, or company where they work closed down etc etc they said : "Oh God hate me/us" or "God punishing us" etc . So the words from their mouth say they believe in unconditional love but only when things are as they like to happend.
For a true believers , no matter what happened, it is because of God's Will. He Is the most Mercyfull. So until somebody really put that believe in their life at any time, I dont think they really believe in an unconditional love.
Parents love is not an unconditional loves , lots of ego in it, if i may say the truth from within.
God's Love IS "unconditional" , if you believe it.
2007-05-30 01:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by bill s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as unconditional love. It is a construct, and part of the elaborate tool of social control called religion. God does not exist, so no unconditional love there, and despite what some parents tell you, you do not love your children unconditionally. They just haven't found the boundary yet.
2007-05-30 00:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by Nodality 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I do . God gives us unconditional love. A parents love is a second best to God's love.
2007-05-30 00:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by momof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it is something that we should always strive for. If we have unconditional love for our fellow man the world will be a much more beautiful place =)
2007-05-30 00:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe in unconditional love. God loves me unconditionally and I also love Him unconditionally. I love my family unconditionally. There is nothing anyone could do that would stop me from loving them. The same is true for God.
2007-05-30 00:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by tebone0315 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in unconditional grace. That means that sometimes I won't like you, but I will always forgive you.
2007-05-30 00:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After having children it has definitely changed my view on unconditional love. The answer is YES!!! No matter what my children do, I will always still love them.....UNCONDITIONALLY!
2007-05-30 00:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, and I'll tell you why.
Love from me is supposed to be a special feeling, for people who are special in my life. To give something that is supposedly special away freely is not only unfair to the people that I know deserve it, but also insincere to those who have done nothing to deserve my love.
Love is an automatic response to a certain kind of relationship. If that type of relationship is violated, I will stop feeling love.
However, I have not yet had children, so I'm outside my area of expertise here.
2007-05-30 00:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Dylan H 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. Love is a visceral reaction to a predominantly reinforcing relationship. IF, however, the relationship changed and it became characterized by a predominance of punishment, the punished person would seek to escape and these are conditions that could change love to repulsion.
2007-05-30 00:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by valcus43 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋