i ruined everything. i thought i had no feelings for this amazing guy and it turns out i like him so so so much! i dont know what to do. should i tell him? he told me if i ever needed to he would talk with me but he prob dosent want to talk to me. like idk he gave up smoking for me. and i didnt realize how much of a sacrifice that was untill he started again and it breaks my heart to see him smoking and flirting with other girls. like i have no idea what to do
but i really did mess up everything. i broke his heart and hes over it. but im not idk what to do
2007-05-29 16:52:01 · 5 answers · asked by ariel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You tell him, you melt his heart, and you live happily ever after.
Pluck up the courage and tell him exactly what you told us.
It's a short, blunt answer, but it's the only way to set things straight. And trust me, hard as it may sound, it'll make you more happy than you can possibly imagine to tell him how you feel about him.
2007-05-29 16:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess what you are feeling is probably jealousy. Do you really like him? If he were to come back would you really like him the same way? What you need to realize is that you have to learn to admire him for who and what he is. If you really did, you would have been able to comprehend his actions and not leave him. You can obviously go and talk to him. He once liked you remember? So why should he not want to talk to you? Things maybe difficult, but that's the way things go. You have to face your fears and not run away. Let him know how you feel and back off. If things work out, well and good. In the mean time, take some time to look at yourself and your emotions. Look inside of you and figure out what you really want - maybe a year or more. If after this time, you still feel the same way and he is available, make your move. Let him know how you feel, let him know you made a mistake and hope he accepts you. If he doesn't, show him the same respect as he showed you when you broke up with him - and be happy for him that he is finally happy. That is love, isn't it?
2007-05-29 17:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, you have nothing to loose so call, IM, email, or leave a note you know he'll receive if he's not talking to you telling him how you feel and also apologize for the pain you caused him so that you'll know you did all you can to make things right. No one's perfect and i hope he understands. Good luck.
2007-05-29 17:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Cynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST AND FOREMOST YOU NEED TO BE OPEN WITH
HIM AND LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU REALLY FEEL.
YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE ANY REGRETS..... AND
IT IS COOL THAT HE DOES THINGS FOR YOU LIKE
QUITTING SMOKING. THAT IS A HARD THING TO DO...
AND HONESTLY YOU DON'T KNOW IF HE WANTS TO
TALK TO YOU OR NOT, CUZ YOU HAVEN'T TRIED TO
TALK WITH HIM... YOU NEED TO OPEN UP LIKE I
SAID EARLIER.. WHAT WILL YOU HAVE TO LOOSE....
GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES,...................
2007-05-29 16:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ariel, looks like what is to do has already been done. Lesson learned.
2007-05-29 17:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋