well my gf is a virgin and she agreed that she wants to do it. i never had sex with a virgin, so i talked to a friend (who's like a bro) and he told me that she will start bleeding and a lot of other stuff, is this true?
PS: i'm pretty thick
2007-05-29 16:49:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she will bleed but until a few hours everything is over... but if she is nervous it will hurt a lot to her.. so be patient and do things slow and ask her if she is alright.. she will appreciate if you are romantic ;)
use protection ;)
2007-05-29 16:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by ami 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a girl's first time, it'll probably be harder for both of you. It'll be harder for you to get in because she'll be really tight and most likely still have her hymen, which is basically a 'wall' blocking you out. Once you break that hymen, she may bleed, but it won't be very bad. She'll probably cry out in pain, so ask her if you want her to stop or slow down or whatever else she may want. And do as she says, because she's the one in pain, not you. Once you break her hymen, you'll be stretching her out, so that'll hurt, too. Go slow because too much will make it more uncomfortable than it has to be.
Good luck.
2007-05-29 16:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have already been broken through sports, and movement so she will probably not bleed, but it depends on how old she is. Thats the only thing I know that happens so I don't know what your friend is talking about.
2007-05-29 16:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is true, it's called the hymen........when a girl loses her virginity the hymen breaks and starts bleeding, most guys call it her "cherry being popped" and since you're pretty thick, it may hurt her the first few times..........just take it easy and go slow and if it hurts her too much and she says stop, make sure you stop
2007-05-29 16:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's too young for you. Go back to the house of the friend you talked to, and have sex with his mom, instead.
2007-05-29 16:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by bobdanob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you wait and let it happen naturally . planning & thinking about it takes to much energy an not enough gentleness. just be gentle an take your time. let her guide you.whats a little blood. if that grosses you out you are deffinately not ready for a virgin.
2007-05-29 16:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by buddababy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is deff a painful xperience the first time...girls r all diff sizes tho so it might not b so bad for her.... i suggest going really slow and letting her get comfortibal with every move (this time should be about HER... not about u getting off)... also A LOT of lube will help....hope that helps!
2007-05-29 16:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by hana chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, virgin will bleed on thier first s**. but soe girls don't because when they do bike riding, mountain climbing their hormon break which means they won't bleed during first s**.
2007-05-29 16:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what kind of sex you have and a number of other factors.
2007-05-29 16:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure but when you have intercourse you will break this thing in her and that will "pop her cherry" . so that might be the reason why she bleeds if she does.
2007-05-29 16:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋