im thinking about running away from home im 13 im not being abused my life is actually ok i just dont like it?

Answer 1

If life is good, then why ruin it by running away? What would your parents think? Just change some everyday things you do, and you should start to enjoy life more.

Answer 2

Running to where? There is nothing glamorous or romantic about having no home, no food and being bait for every bad thing that you can imagine. \
Just think of all the kids who have run away because they were abused and truly mistreated and thought they had no place to go. I bet they would all tell you to stay home. You are 13...your parents, and you, still have a long way to go before you are grown, but it doesn't have to all be hard. Try to learn to appreciate the home you have, the parts you like. Then focus on yourself and who you would like to be when you are old enough to move out legally. You need an education of course, perhaps you need to find a hobby or something to help occupy your after school and summer time. Volunteer. You can find alot about yourself by offering your free time to others who are not so fortunate as you.
Don't forget that if you run away, your family will have to deal with their loss of you in there life. You take away their opportunity to show you love, see the wonderful adult you can become. The may have to deal with your early death if all does not go as you plan.
Please put alot of thought about why you are really thinking of this, and then put the thought away....Focus on becoming a positive force in this life. You deserve it and so does your family. An ok life is nothing to sneeze at....You can make it better when you are older and have more experiences behind you.

Answer 3

Enough is not enough, is it? As u mention u have a home and a normal life. Having things inside the home that u don't like is normal. For example I don't like my mum, she asks too many question and my dad critisizes everything a lot!! Running from the things u don't like is not a solution. And if u start being a coward now u will remain for the rest of your life and apply flee in every problem or situation u don't like. Stay home and face what u don't like, that's how u will become a mature person. Your family provides u values that u can't gain yourself. Don't underestimate that. And also be reasonable. Where would u go out there? Do u have any idea how cruel the world is? People kidnap children and sell their organs. U will starve, feel cold, won't be able to take regular showers and wash your clothes, and u will terribly miss your family. As I said the world is bad and u, a 13 year old kid, are not ready for it. It is your parents duty to prepare u for it. Don't hurry to grow up. The time when u leave home is not far away, just 5 years. Enjoy your family now because after that u won't again. And don't act like a spoiled kid. There are children out there who dream of what u have, don't throw it away, it's like telling them your dream is stupid when it's not. The lack of family can cause u many psychological issues that u won't be able to ger rid of easily. So, please be reasonable.

Answer 4

Running away can seem like a good option at your age. But it can result in so much pain and hurt. Think of your parents and how frightened they will be for you. Think of your extended family - grandparents, aunts, uncles, siblings, and friends. How will all these people feel when you suddenly disappear? Then think about how life will be like on the streets with no money. Food will be scarce, so will shelter. You won't get a chance to take regular baths, showers, brush your teeth, etc. If you get sick - there is no medical help on the streets. Lots of predators on the street who try to get you into drugs, prostitution, or criminal activities. Education is virtually over - which may not seem like a big deal right now - but the day will come when you are working minimum wage jobs and you will wish for something better - and it won't be forthcoming because you don't have an education. Since you posted here - you must like the internet - well you can forget that on the street - no access. No new clothes, no cell phone, no getting a driver's license and a car at 16...

Considering all this - running away doesn't sound very glamorous or interesting to me.

Answer 5

The Reality of Running Away
When you think about running away, you probably imagine that there will be no more rules, no parent to tell you what to do, no more fights. Sounds great and exciting, right? Iin reality, running away is anything but fun. Kids and teens who run away face new problems like not having any money, food to eat, a safe place to sleep, or anyone to look out for them.

People with no home and no money become desperate, doing anything just to meet their basic needs. Because of this, they often find themselves in risky situations that would be frightening, even for adults. Runaway kids get involved in dangerous crimes much more often than kids who live at home.

Kids who live on the streets often have to steal to meet basic needs. Many take drugs or alcohol to get through the day because they become so depressed and feel that no one cares about them. Some are forced to do things they wouldn't normally do to make money. The number of kids with HIV or AIDS and other diseases is higher on streets, too, because these kids might use IV drugs or have unprotected sex (often for money).
It may feel like there's no way to fix the problems that are making you think about running away. If you can, tell your mom or dad how you feel. They need to know that you're upset or that you're afraid they don't love you or want you around. It may be possible to work together as a family to change things for the better. Sometimes talking with a counselor as a family can help.

If the problem is as serious as abuse and a parent is involved, then talk to a teacher or counselor at school, a good friend's parent, a close relative, or another trusted adult. Let that person help you find somewhere safe to stay. It might be hard to share this secret because you may feel ashamed or afraid of getting someone in trouble, but remember that abuse is never your fault.

Please don't do it. I have boys your age..I would just die if I didn't know where they were. i wouldn't be able to function right ever again.

Answer 6

Wow you're so lucky, at least only one of your parents does that. When I was younger it was a HUGE problem in my life. My sisters never got it as much, but being the youngest, my parents were just MEAN!!! :( Good thing they never hit you though. The first thing I would do is tell her when she's yelling how you feel, I always had to remind my parents why I would be crying. They won't get it at first, but when you keep telling them, sooner or later they'll realize what it's doing. If it gets out of hand, then maybe you should think about getting away from her, not that I'm saying go do this, but a lot of people in your situation would be thinking about suicide! (DON'T!!!!!) If she yells at you, call a friend and see if you can spend the night at their house, or call a relative. Let your mom know what she's doing and that what she's doing is not good for you or herself. If she doesn't calm down, it's gonna go from verbal abuse to physical abuse. So be careful.

Answer 7

Listen sweetie...it is SCAREY out there. When I was very young, I too ran away many times. I felt no one listened to what I thought, whether it was wrong or right, I went unheard. Then having favorites was a BIG issue at home. My Dad favored my older sister and never paid any attention to me unless I was bad. I REGRET it now that I am a parent. What I must have put my Mom thru. Worrying all hours that your baby is out there all alone. God...what was I thinking. I know it was for attention but the repercussions were always worse! My Mom is gone now for nearly 6 years and I would do ANYTHING to have her here. I miss her dearly. I can't just go home and find her welcoming arms and loving eyes EVER again. Stay honey. Too many freaks in the world will prey on your innocence and it could be life threatening. If you need an ear or a shoulder, email me and we can talk and I will help you to make wiser and thought out decisions. Your Friend from a far..been there done that!

Answer 8

Doesn't sound like a good idea to me. the world is really a dangerous place and as much as your parents get on your LAST nerve, u gotta believe that they're just looking out for ur best interest. Stay home to avoid a lot of trouble and dangers. U should talk to someone u trust about ur feelings and figure out what is REALLY making u want to run away. Try a friend, or a school counselor, or even a hotline. Just save urself some trouble and don't runaway.

Answer 9

There must be at least something going on to make you want to do this. Usually when somebody wants to run away there is something going on that they need to get away from. When somebody is abused they don't think are, but really they are. There is something inside of you that is making you feel like you are being endangered and you want to get away from it. Instead of just running away, maybe you can talk with a counselor at school or an older adult whom you trust. They will be able to add some emotional support and help you come up with more worth while solutions.

Answer 10

I must tell you i felt the same way when i was 13 now that i have a 13 year old it makes me under stand y'all better try to find what you don't like about your life ask mom & dad to help you may need more time with them but remember your parents love you they may not tell you much for mine didn't but look around you have nice clothes a place to sleep food to eat you would not have these things if you ran away or if you were not loved just havg in there find a hobby for the summer
know that a stranger loves you and will be praying for you

Answer 11

That's kind of stupid....

If everything is "ok", why do you want to run away? What are you running away from? What are the things you don't like? Do you think, by running away, you'll find something you'd actually like? Where would you find it?

If you run away, your life won't be OK. You'll also find, you'll hate things you'll find out there, especially when you are found and be put on trial, then to the juvenile detention center. Let's not forget, before you are found, you'll be living on streets with no money and no food to eat.

I am thinking, you are just bored. Running away is an awfully big mistake to make, for being just bored...