I'm attraced to fat women; it's ruining my life via society and medicine. How do I deal with/rid this fetish?

Question

I'm a straight college male who's sexually
attracted to fat women, and it is causing all sorts of
problems. I have to go online to look at sites that
I'm not proud of, ON CAMPUS using the SCHOOL'S
COMPUTERS (I don't have my own computer), because I
can hardly see them anywhere else in the media; I feel
that this fetish will lead me into a relationship
where I have to force feed a woman into obesity and its various related illnesses (like in the movie "Feed");
of course there is the embarrassment of dating a fat
woman in this society (not to mention the horrors of being one, and it seems as if they're all losing huge amounts of weight). I'm thinking about getting rid
of this preference for plus-sized women. What can I
do, if anything, to become attracted to normal-sized women?
Is it therapy, hypnosis, medication, what? Should I even change my preference of attraction?
Thank you for your help,
--Jason

Answer 1

you don't there is nothing wrong with liking a bigger women. you like who ever you like and if people around you don't like that then its there problem not yours. live your life for you not others.

Answer 2

A lot of men have odd fantasies and hide them pretty well. It's good that you knew beforehand. But if there is nothing there sexually (without the hose) then I'm sorry to say there isn't much to do. A marriage counselor would be the ideal suggestion but since you've already tried that, and he is unwilling to talk about it rationally, then you might want to consider a divorce. Or at least a trial separation. The idea isn't to leave him, it's to get his attention, if you leave him then he will probably realize how much it bothers you and he would hopefully be willing to talk about it then. But then again there is always the possibility that he may not want you back (so be cautious and give it some serious thought). If all else fails, I'm a single guy who doesn't have a pantyhose fetish.

Answer 3

Keep on the lovin' --- there are a lot of women who are killing themselves because they want to be light as air. It's refreshing to hear that, and those women need to feel more valued through people like you, who can see the beauty in them.

Just don't do it at school online ;)

Answer 4

No, don't be ashamed of what you're attracted to---be a man. Big women are beautiful, too, and, there is nothing wrong with this attraction---at least you're not a pervert.

Answer 5

Don't be stupid. You should not and probably cannot change what you are attracted to. Don't buy into the pop culture bullshit about skinny women being the only ones that are attractive. You need to come to terms with the fact that you are attracted to what you are attracted to and that it isn't going to change. Find some nice large woman and go to town.

Answer 6

Now, society says you can never change your orientation, so relax, It won't hurt you. You don't have to be embarrassed and fat women need love too.

Answer 7

You should Stick with the way you feel and Ignore the way people act or say around you. If you want a Voluptuous woman then go for it and have the time of your life. It shouldn't matter what other people think its you that is going to have the pleasure not them. GO FOR IT!!!!!!!

Answer 8

Don't worry about what other people think. If you like big girls, go with it. Why not? If you live in the USA, there are plently of big women out there. Go for what makes you happy; why feel bad about it?

Answer 9

go lean with bean protein beans are an affordable and healthy alternative to meats and are wonderfully filling

Answer 10

there is nothing wrong with being with a plus size women,you need to stop letting other people tell you who to date,if thats what you like then go for it,and lets be real,you are just hideing,behing that computer to keep folks out of your life.there are a lot of plus size women in the world and i am s\ure you see then ever day